Dr. Becky | Psychologist
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Beckah :
I will say hey - I’m speaking to you nicely and with respect. Can you speak to me nicely and with respect ? And that usually shakes my kid out of his attitude.
2024-09-13 04:52:03
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Just a Simple Bougie Mama :
I’m the, “Try again” mom most times
2024-09-12 23:54:49
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Nat :
Big fan of “try that one again” over here 👋🏻
2024-09-12 22:57:31
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wilder ☻ :
I say in a gentle tone “I don’t like being spoken to like that. Could you try saying it again in a kinder way?” And it works really well and seems to be building my kid’s empathy skills
2024-09-13 14:32:27
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threadsnspreads :
Number 3 is not gonna De-escalate my kid. 🤣
2024-09-12 19:54:57
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spring.wildflowers :
What if your child’s tone of voice most of the time is rude. One of my children has a very pedantic tone, and my younger child is imitating her sister’s rudeness. So now I have two who are this way.
2024-09-13 02:28:27
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Coral D :
gonna use these! my dopamine mining 9 yr old looooves to try and get us into arguments and power struggles when they're in a bad mood. so hard to know what to say
2024-09-12 20:04:53
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Karen Dadej (Rattigan) :
I used your advice from another video you posted .. I asked my 14 year old... "What can I do to be a better mom to you?" It worked! it began this awesome conversation and I want to thank you!!!
2024-09-13 14:54:57
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Max227 :
Ugh! It’s so hard to stop & think in the moment to give the mature response. It’s much easier to go along with the knee jerk response & react, but for a better relationship with my kid, I will try.
2024-09-12 19:49:40
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Robyn 𖣂 :
They will say “no I don’t wanna try again”
2024-09-15 04:01:46
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Debra :
Gen X parent here. Don’t talk to me like that .
2025-08-29 21:45:04
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Dr Michele McDowell :
Yes I often use I hear you but does not mean I agree ! Yes try again is the key demonstrating consistent unconditional love 💙
2026-02-21 11:52:50
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k :
“I hear you “is my least favorite phrase as well as that’s makes sense. Just insincere and overused
2025-08-16 02:14:45
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LoveLightSunny :
I like to say, “let’s rewind and try again”. I’m an 80’s kid 😂
2024-09-13 13:18:02
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Angelina Westover :
My go to line is "I hear and see that you're----- but I need you to say that to me in another way please."
2024-10-03 20:12:38
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Blondedawn :
“Peace begins with me” is my internal mantra. It’s SOO hard.
2024-09-14 21:42:34
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talkernan1 :
Works for grandparents too!
2024-09-12 23:54:32
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Tiny Human Print Co. :
I told my son that he’s a good kid even though he’s been making not great decisions later and he broke down in shock 🥹😭 these words are so important for kids to hear!
2024-09-13 16:45:05
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Rach1986 :
thankyou. I need to remember these 💜
2024-10-06 04:47:12
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Helen Lanagan :
Kids are learning. Yes we need to help them 💝
2025-09-01 12:19:55
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Mickey :
Or shorten it to….you can be mad but you can’t be mean!
2024-10-09 10:32:12
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user448363529926 :
So my teen boy called me a 'C' tonight for trying to help him with career choices. Which response do you find fitting.
2025-09-02 11:10:35
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InaBeerJohansen🇧🇻 :
About nr. 3. I think it is important for us to teach the kid, and remind them frequently about other ways to say something, and not just assume that they know.
2024-09-13 10:24:05
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