@ajvstheeworld: Im not saying some things don’t objectively suck but truly sometimes the answer is to try to be where you’re loved/understood. like i see it in other marginalized groups too. Like sometimes a queer person is struggling and truly what they need is more queer friends who get it #BlackTikTok #wlw #lgbt #sapphic #blackqueer #friends #friendship
very true! I feel this so much at work/grad school but don't know how to change that as my field is like 5% black. also living in Boston has been rough. moving right after graduation for this reason.
2024-09-14 16:42:31
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EQ :
Ure not wrong but i feel like not everyone has the luxury of being in an environment with alot of other pocs😭
2024-09-14 16:05:52
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Virgoing :
Or “I feel so uncomfortable like i can’t relax even in a room full of friends” listennn to that feeling!!
2024-09-14 14:42:42
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Matt Ryan Padora :
In general, if you don’t feel comfortable around your friends, or like going where they like to go, it’s because there’s a distinct difference in values and interests.
2024-09-14 16:46:23
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moequad :
sometimes you gotta say “this ain’t for me” and move 😌
2024-09-14 18:40:31
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🍉the country bat🆘🇺🇸 :
Filipino in the rural Midwest and I feel seen lol
2024-09-14 15:17:15
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redveil :
ong
2024-09-14 16:21:24
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Solo Supreme :
I have never complained 🤣 back in the day my friend and I took turns. I was cute for my community and she was cute for hers. It depended on who town we was in
2024-09-14 18:44:04
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dirk dreamer :
Yes, and i gotta be self-aware enough to remove myself from the situation.
2024-09-14 15:32:27
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ohhsaycuntyousee5 :
i realized ive been going through this since the end of high school in wa state
2024-09-14 21:04:38
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Beyonder :
I moved from the OC to LA and my anxiety disappeared
2024-09-24 17:34:16
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✨ iGarden🌱iCook 🥘 :
Yes. Then I stopped hanging out with them.
2024-09-14 15:48:43
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Lovie <3 :
and too much time thinking about them too!
2024-09-15 07:36:31
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cantbe.aya :
Yaaap, a lot of the internets problems.
2024-09-14 15:36:19
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Cass Faith 🦋✨ :
This is why I don't even go out in my town bc even when I do find acquaintances something inevitably happens. I hate it here. Never move to rural areas 😩.
2024-09-14 17:57:30
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whodidhuh :
Very valid
2024-09-14 13:49:33
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sarita 🇵🇭🧿🍉⚖️ :
Me when I used to live in NC. I moved to DC and this changed so much
2024-09-15 12:41:39
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riley :
growing up in the rural midwest has been detrimental to my confidence
2024-09-15 18:24:49
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Amir :
I just ignore them. I’m like that ain’t non of my business. I don’t have those problems😂
2024-09-26 04:39:06
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SAiDALOUD :
😭😭😭
2026-05-22 07:26:58
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🥫 :
I’m in a lot of white spaces, I figure skate and curl, but I’m proud I don’t fit in. Like yall about to be sick of me whooping your ass in your own sport 😼😹
2024-09-14 15:02:58
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Dante FlushtheToilet :
this operates under the assumption that the majority of black people haven't already been taught to see value in whiteness and aspire to it
2024-09-14 15:54:13
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Bri! :
I just watched a video of that right before this and the girl was arguing with Black women in the comments who were disagreeing with her. Not everyone wants to be a white standard.
2024-09-14 05:38:14
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✩ :
when black boys complain about women saying they like fluffy hair means they don’t like black guys- like barely any black women says they like guys w fluffy hair it’s bc you only like non black girls
2024-09-14 17:16:00
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