@shawnathemom: A sinple “I’m so sorry” goes so far. This is one big “What not to say” PSA 😭 #momskits This was requested by lots and lots the grieving mamas.
So many people ... they think they're being sweet but each sentiment is like a knife in the heart 😐
2024-09-15 22:23:19
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_cho_ :
the only allowed words are "I am so sorry" followed with a hug. never anything other.
2024-09-16 05:54:53
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The Tatted Professor :
“Good thing it was early and not a “real” baby”. I still remember this. It still hurts.
2024-09-15 22:20:47
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The.Chicken.Witch :
I lost two at 6.5 weeks and the shit people said was exactly like this and it was awful.
2024-09-15 22:27:20
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Merg :
I never want to be a mom, but this is my comfort page for some reason. To all the mommas who have experienced this, I’m so sorry.
2024-09-15 22:13:01
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Norita :
Stoppp this made me so sad 😭 can you do a version where the friend said the ✨RIGHT✨ thing.
2024-09-15 22:23:30
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Rachel 🪬 :
All of those cliches hurt. I preferred “I love you” and a hug. The end.
2024-09-15 22:12:45
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Meg :
Perfect example of what NOT to do.
2024-11-20 23:29:07
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Emily 🫶🏼 :
“I have never heard someone say so many wrong things, one after another, consecutively, in a row!”- David Rose 😂
2024-11-03 00:31:45
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LadyFader :
this made me feel that terror all over again...
2025-08-11 04:52:43
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JessHonea :
My angel baby’s due date is 9/19. He should be 19. And was never a blessing in disguise.
2024-09-15 22:17:58
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ari :
My baby should be 7 months. It was no blessing in disguise. It didn’t happen for some higher reason. They should be here.
2024-09-15 22:32:34
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Doublenjenn85 :
here's a video of WHAT NOT TO SAY EVER 💀
2025-11-14 02:50:58
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Sara Draving :
I heard those with all 4 of my losses. I understand they're trying to be supportive but it just hurts worse 😕
2024-09-15 23:02:39
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Haras Henschke :
You are attached from the moment you see the second line. sometimes even earlyer. You are losing a whole life, that no one can bring you back.
2024-09-16 06:21:21
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Amy :
The obviously something wrong hits so hard. I was 8 wks and 42 yrs old last year. That statement always made me think the obvious was me and my old eggs. Please don’t say that.
2024-09-15 22:32:58
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Franklinfurter :
I lost my first at 12 weeks. The only "blessing" was that it made me a more compassionate person by opening my eyes to how many ppl experience pregnancy loss & carry this invisible grief with them.
2024-09-15 23:24:37
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Jess-May1549 :
how do people not understand this is so wrong to say 😭😭
2024-09-21 15:24:12
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The Shiny Writer ❌ :
I was 10 weeks. It was my first and only pregnancy. I hated, hated hearing all of this. The worst thing was when people didn’t know & kept asking when we were having kids.
2024-09-15 23:43:56
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Melody Bensch :
I lost a full term. Stillbirth. The amount of ppl who still said those lines, ughhh
2024-09-18 13:36:59
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CV :
The he only thing that should be said is “im so sorry” and “im here for you if you need to talk”
2024-09-23 23:33:02
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Charlotte vs. Tyranny :
"I'm so sorry. how are you?" is the response
2024-09-16 06:10:13
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carriesheeshee :
After two pregnancy losses it still hurts to hear “well at least you know you CAN get pregnant!”. Like ok cool, not helpful on the slightest. I wanted to stay pregnant.
2024-09-15 23:37:22
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Casey Epps :
I had someone tell me “ now you can have a rainbow baby”…
2024-09-16 16:24:23
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Sam S. :
“It’ll happen when you stop stressing!” “This happens to everyone.” “Maybe it was something you ate.” 😩
2024-09-17 15:27:59
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