It’s so hard to find balance. As the anxious one, I find myself torn between two anxieties - anxiety he doesn’t love me and anxiety that my needs will push him away. It’s exhausting.
2024-09-17 01:44:54
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Kimberly :
It’s me, hi…
2024-09-17 02:37:18
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Lia 🌻💖 :
I guilty :( I assume intent but 1+1=2 doesn’t it???
2024-11-21 06:52:47
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tropssicle :
Being with him has helped my trust so much. For the first time I truly trust someone 100% and when he says he loves me I believe it without doubt
2024-09-17 18:59:49
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_.ae89 :
My bf is SO good about bringing this up when I do it & he is so patient with me and lets it be a learning experience for me to trust us & trust him. 2yrs strong ❤️
2024-09-16 15:50:14
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Gh0sty :
How can you become more reliable then? I have a very busy life and I want to be trusted that I can be there, and I try when I can, but it's not always possible to be there, even over text
2024-09-16 13:59:15
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kIpPy.2312 :
I started as needing an extreme amount of validation and now I'm so numb to not getting it I am always surprised and suspicious when he does show anything. 😅
2024-09-16 14:53:44
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Deanna✨ :
Wow the first part is exactly like you read my mind.. Can you please give me more advice on how to help my fear of abandonment?
2024-09-16 21:37:44
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FLAMBOYANT.009 :
I am the one that keeps changing for him for whatever he wants. Constantly showing how much I love him, but I don’t feel that I’m reciprocated . I’m too embarrassed to ask if he loves me truly
2024-10-16 03:22:25
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Nate Wilcox :
So question, why is the same grace for anxiously clinging not extended to those wanting space? That’s also a trauma response but it’s viewed as more toxic than others. Just wondering
2024-09-17 12:49:06
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Karleigh :
Do you have any advice for one-sided compromise in a relationship? I feel like it’s always my bfs wants and needs but he never thinks about what I want it’s always about him.
2024-09-17 03:38:03
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Bibs25 :
Me 😔…and always wondering if what is said is truly meant and if it’s not repeated again wondering if their feelings changed.
2024-10-18 03:21:37
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Harleen Frances Quinzel :
this hurts. i wish i saw this years ago. i wish this was enough to save my kids.
2024-09-17 01:51:54
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woohooscooty :
😭 I feel understood. 🙏
2024-09-17 19:07:47
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benji ! 🐈⬛ :
i feel like both of these are true for us to a certain extent, but i don’t even know where to start to begin to fix it
2024-09-16 13:49:42
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Melanie Hollis Author :
Wow!!! This is 100% accurate.
2024-09-16 17:53:33
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Cara Picone :
Oop, it me…
2024-09-16 12:59:12
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💙Erik💔 :
what about those who tell themselves that this is happening when it isn't?
2024-09-17 05:53:05
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Nick Ventura :
I definitely do the first one and I think it also causes the second one to
2024-09-20 18:48:55
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happyheartintx :
This is exactly what’s happening in my relationship right now. Thank you for this. ❤️
2024-09-16 23:46:10
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JamieCorine :
The basic level. It’s not too much to ask
2024-09-19 17:44:47
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ladyg228 :
Thank you for posting this! 👏👏👏
2024-09-16 18:53:11
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Go2Gal :
You are on fire!
2024-10-15 12:49:50
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a_family_mann :
Pure gold 💯 🫡
2024-11-04 18:35:07
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