NotWildlin
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Reb :
“We need third spaces” + “I hate small talk” in an infinite loop
2024-09-18 11:02:05
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Brain Rot :
I think it's actually super anticapitalist and cool to take time to be kind to people
2024-09-18 03:38:00
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Rynnstar Presents on YouTube :
This is soooooo real. Social skills are so important and they’re dying 😭
2024-09-18 09:46:39
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natalia f :
no because you can't complain about no third places and then make a face at me when i say good morning in an elevator 🤡🤡
2024-09-18 06:05:42
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@crystaluncut :
Hello!!!! Like no one even asks “what floor” on the elevator anymore
2024-09-18 03:02:58
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EA :
We’re all losing these skills we need practice!! Especially younger people
2024-09-18 02:17:20
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KeyLimeMagpie :
Cue the Chris Flemming quote “you call yourself a community organizer even though you’re not on speaking terms with your roommates”
2024-09-18 15:18:40
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Dana - bridge between worlds :
seriously this is a thing! anti-social habits are so ingrained as a result of hyperindividualism+ hypervigilence+ capitalism Dx
2024-09-18 07:22:56
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tacticat_ :
I feel like the venn diagram of people who hate small talk and will go on about how they don’t owe you anything and people who complain about not having any meaningful human connections is a circle
2024-09-18 12:09:06
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caterpillartoess :
THISSS i got a puppy and now talk to so many ppl on the street and realized how anti-social i got used to being
2024-09-18 03:03:38
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gosh :
yes!! the same way you can’t view someone as *just* your cashier, you shouldn’t view someone as *just* a customer. we’re all people and should be in community with each other
2024-09-18 03:50:14
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Lizzie :
People saying “work is not a third space” are missing the point imo. How are we supposed to create good third spaces when we can barely deal with interacting in second spaces?
2024-09-19 06:20:58
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Milanya :
Normalize not wearing headphones/airpods in public and actually interacting with people/the environment around you!!!!
2025-06-01 02:19:26
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✨🔮🪶Leorio🪶🔮✨ :
my bf is studying ece and apparently there's an issue with kids not learning social cues and social behaviors because most of their socializing is through screens and it's effecting child psychology
2024-09-18 05:37:52
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Lee Lemon :
it's so unnerving to attempt to speak to another adult and have them act like a toddler who hasn't ever interacted with anyone that isn't mom or dad, like, bro what are you DOING?
2024-09-18 13:04:21
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georgia o’queef 🪻🕸️🌀🦇 :
I get it but also I feel like people who are influencers now forget how incredibly emotionally exhausting it is to be in a customer facing role. maybe the class stuff doesn't need to be brought up-
2024-09-18 17:15:27
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Chaos :
I'm audhd with severe social anxiety ramped up by years of being housebound and I still respond, smile, and say hi to people regularly. I give directions whenever asked and am pretty decent at it
2024-09-18 12:55:55
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Luis :
flip the argument not to be about the employee, but apply it to the customer. too frequently customers don’t care about the employee, they just see you as a corporate representative and not a person
2024-09-18 15:21:02
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Apollo :
I gave this guy a compliment yesterday at the café that I hang out at. On his way out, he came over to me with borderline watery eyes say “I just wanted to thank you for the compliment so much”
2024-09-18 12:15:32
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lainey :
when companies stop underpaying and overworking people theyll be more sociable. it seems like a silly hello but when youre exhausted & have to give someone the same script for the 1000th time in 1/2
2024-09-18 15:33:39
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Iblameagriculture :
Social skills are developed by exposure. The death of third spaces and community limit said exposure. People, on mass, society wide haven’t randomly decided to not develop social skills.
2024-09-18 12:28:08
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kaia :)) :
i have worked absolutely horrible jobs and the only thing that gets me through my day is being kind to people and interacting with other humans
2024-09-18 15:32:03
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Taleise 💛 :
fr, and so many ppl my age hate talking to strangers but it's actually the best because it's likely you'll never see them again
2024-09-18 03:07:14
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Honestly trying something pal :
im back in college and i try to talk to my classmates and they all like seem to dread the smallest if small talk about class 😭😭like damn i see you three times a week is it weird to be social??
2024-09-18 03:09:37
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CyCy🍸 :
It’s not even in the casual pleasantries of being social it’s in the casual pleasantries of being a human
2024-09-18 04:34:21
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