Nadia Bokody
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Оля♟️🎢 :
honestly, I've thought for a long time that finding someone attractive = being attracted to them. still kinda struggling with the concept
2024-09-18 11:04:14
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rach.ven567 :
Yeahhh see this is why I didn’t figure out I was indeed a lesbian (not bi) until very recently 😅
2024-10-02 21:58:59
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Erin M. McGinley :
I'm Ace so I'm really struggling to figure this stuff out.. 🤦♀️
2024-09-30 15:45:32
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Maya14673 :
Yeah that’s why I didn’t realise I was bi till like three years ago
2024-10-09 00:14:36
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💜✨Simone✨💜 :
And yet to this day. If you are a woman, who has been with a man.. you can't be a lesbian, then you must be bi. I understand why there's a struggle 🫣♥️
2024-09-18 06:42:41
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Nicola :
One of the biggest drivers of comphet imo is the fact that it's so normalized for straight women to be unsatisfied by men in terms of attractiveness, performance, etc.
2024-09-18 17:26:49
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tal :
it's actually even more basic. my wife who has zero sexual interest in women, prefers to draw women because "curves are more fun to draw"
2024-09-20 22:31:09
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Woozlesdontreact :
yh I could go around saying I'm bi based on this but there's no point I only ever find myself emotionally/romantically attracted to men no matter how much id like not to. your theory will simply not-
2024-09-18 18:28:51
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Jessy :
I get it but I just don't want to accept it yet tbh
2024-09-18 05:29:14
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kathleen :
In high school I told my two friends like it was a fact that the female form was objectively more beautiful than a man. Anyways I can out when I was 35.
2024-09-18 05:37:13
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Linds :
Attraction literally means you feel drawn to them like a magnet: Want to sit next to them want to talk to them want to know them etc. I thought thinking a man was cute meant I was attracted. Nope!
2024-09-18 23:03:34
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B44 :
some of this may be semantics as well. I think some confuse "they are beautiful" from "i want to f them" and often can't separate the concept. I def did til I realized I'm demi ace
2024-09-21 02:42:54
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redd :
could be biphobia tbh
2024-09-20 20:04:17
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Thresa Saenz :
There’s plenty of men that I find attractive aesthetically, but Cis men I have zero desire to be with physically or romantically.
2024-09-18 21:30:23
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zwnskyfan :
hehe well.... this doesn't really help me figure out if I'm bi bc I'm ace lol, but it's a good confirmation that I'm ace :)
2024-09-18 05:37:14
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mind_on_display :
all the gay men I know find women objectively more attractive, but they're not attracted to women.
2024-09-18 19:45:12
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Jessica Medley :
Makes perfect sense to me!
2024-09-18 06:53:36
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ire :
i said that exact phrase for years before i realized that i was gay.. you are on point
2024-09-19 22:45:56
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kieran :
I understand the concept but I still think that women are objectively more attractive than men. I'm also a lesbian though so
2024-09-19 02:30:20
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Vermillion :
I'm demi, and I think women are on average better looking than men, but only because on average they spend more time on their appearance.
2024-09-19 04:20:01
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egil3000 :
Someone who loves Jeeps can probably see that a Porsche is more beautiful, even if they would never want to drive one
2024-09-18 13:25:46
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🌹Christine🌹 :
Tbh most guys don’t try with their looks or style bc they aren’t as socialized to care about their looks. Most guys look incredibly mid unless they’re genetically blessed in the face
2024-09-29 11:20:01
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Tove :
for those who don't know, this can be referred to as aesthetic attraction vs sexual attraction 😊
2024-09-18 17:09:16
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Ladyv1980 :
Thats what i have always said.. women are just more attractive to look at then men
2024-09-18 15:19:50
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Jadon DaSilva :
I have know many heterosexual females who find female bodies more aesthetically pleasing than male bodies. Many.
2024-09-18 14:01:57
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matti :
my mom says the whole women more attractive than men spiel, and also claims that she knows a lot of gay men that agree
2024-09-18 11:02:03
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Dori Guzmán :
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
2024-09-18 07:19:19
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Victor Alcivar :
I thought linguistically we could divide finding someone aesthetically pleasant with just "beautiful/handsome" and attractive for "feeling attraction" since in Spanish we would make that distinction.
2024-09-18 13:41:16
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Ms.Sleepless :
Maybe commentor means, like the way asexual aromantics can see men/women/nonbinary having objective beauty, but NOT wanting to be involved with any of them in a romantic or sexual way. Jst guessin.
2024-09-29 13:23:44
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DAWN :
a lot of gay men have told me that women are more beautiful than men objectively, they’re just not attracted to them. they complain abt how much harder it is to find an attractive man as a gay man
2024-09-29 04:27:00
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Cherry 🍒 :
nah but I'm pansexual and women are more attractive than men to me because they have better hygiene, put effort in the aesthetic part of clothes and are nicer
2024-09-29 00:33:22
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MIKEYMIKE💜 :
I think the whole world is suffering from male gaze brain rot.
2024-09-21 16:49:03
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Ms. Cheesy :
::hides eyes in asexual::
2024-09-18 23:00:37
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Lluthercorp :
As a straight man: The male figure does not spark joy. But I do want to be desired by women in the same way I know many men desire women.
2024-09-18 22:11:59
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Jess Fegley :
Unless you’re ace and never get to the “attracted to” part for anyone.
2024-09-18 20:13:20
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Printinshit :
100%
2024-09-18 17:40:32
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lyddybb :
okay, I agree with how you are explaining the difference between attractiveness and being attracted to someone. I would say this can be felt in the body as sexual arousal. but please explain how ⬇️
2024-09-18 14:38:23
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curly :
I have had so many crushes on friends in the past. I am married to a man because my generation found it abhorrent. Wished I had been braver
2024-09-18 14:26:45
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Lindsay :
Very true!!!!!
2024-09-18 13:47:01
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eternalenigma86 :
I am a photographer and I find women beautiful and I love to photograph them, but there is zero attraction.
2024-09-18 10:02:27
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Donna Anita McGrath :
this why took me ages to come out cus everyone said oh but everyone loves the female form, and I was like but I'd like to be inside her .... 😅 just took me a while
2024-10-22 19:33:47
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🦇🖤Lilith 🖤🦇 🇨🇦 🍁 :
Denial is part of the process 😂
2024-10-20 08:15:52
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Dani Berzethy :
How does this not directly contradict your statement in the original video? Your original point mixes these very same concepts together.
2024-10-19 06:50:18
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Andrew :
Bet I could turn you back
2024-10-14 14:01:14
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_BeeNice__ :
Hmm idk lesbians f.ex can say oh a male celebrity is visually attractive, but they would still never sleep with them
2024-10-11 00:55:46
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Lola :
Your first and second claim are contradictory. If you don't need to be attracted to someone to know they're attractive, you can find women generally more attractive than men without being into women.
2024-10-10 08:58:02
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creep creepin :
gay men are capable of finding women beautiful idk why you think they don't
2024-10-09 02:08:22
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Louella :
I honestly don’t get how conditioning can make you unaware of who you are… it’s bizarre to me. I’ve known since I was a kid and nothing could ever change my non-attraction to blokes
2024-10-02 19:26:02
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Mishka :
👌👌👌
2024-10-01 16:23:47
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bunsapple :
I'm a guy. I can still find men aesthetically handsome or pretty. It has nothing to do with my sexuality, I've done a deep dive into it and know I'm straight/ace. People who are pretty are pretty.
2024-10-01 12:09:27
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NellBell :
Listen😩😩😩😩i hear you i get you but this is not true✋😭 You can think someone is objectively ATTRACTIVE without being ATTRACTED to them. Any demisexual will tell you this. You can have no sexual desire amd still think Oh theyre pretty. its like noticing a flower. Thinking women are naturally prettier doesnt make you gay. It means you have eyes. Now if you wanna do things with them or imagine them intimately then ja sure.
2024-09-29 12:44:18
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Sophia :
Woman or man both have incredible beautiful bodies, but one gender gets extremely more objectified in art then the other
2024-09-29 07:56:35
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Camz🦆 :
🥰🥰🥰
2024-09-29 04:17:10
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