@literalblackwidow: I’m in rare form with the 3am ambush grief episode, guys! 😒 I bring it back at the end tho - cuz FXCK this shxt. #widow #widowtok #widower #widowersoftiktok #darkhumor #grief #ambushgrief #firsttimemom #rainbowbaby #genalphaparent #militarywife #militaryspouse
Oh my goodness! The end! That’s me I’ll be bawling my eyes out shaking and then all of a sudden I’ll be a total dork again
2024-09-18 15:48:55
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Xylo Da Chief :
You’re doing amazing friend. You know no one can tell you how to grieve and I’m proud of you! Keep your head up big dawg! You got this! 🤗🤗🤗
2024-09-18 15:48:14
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TheEricMoreauShow :
I walked 4 miles today for you! I feel you on this grief journey 💐
2024-09-18 16:44:11
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Colormecupcake :
::hugs::
2024-09-19 23:51:28
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Allison Ruth Bethel :
After I cry I always say look at me crying over a man 😂
2024-09-18 10:10:46
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Angele-CraftyCarol80 :
That’s the part nobody talks about . It comes out of nowhere and all you can do is feel it all. I over stand this. 🥺I’m sorry
2024-09-18 08:16:00
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Ms. Tina ❤️🩹 Grief Support :
The evenings are the worst 🥺 Thank you for sharing with us 💗 I love you, my friend 🫂 But to the regular program 😂
2024-09-18 10:09:40
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Thatgrlwithglasses :
The milestones are the worst! My daughter’s first day of college was on his death anniversary. I was like really?!? We got through it tho. We will get through it. Hugs widow sister.
2024-09-18 13:42:38
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Yolanda :
Remember ur grandma said cry if u wanna, that's why God gave em to us..AND.... that's why God gave em to us....AND... You're a Curser!! (u don't do it very well) Love You Bhuda!
2024-09-19 23:21:16
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glam_melanin :
it never goes away baby it just becomes the new normal
2024-09-18 12:59:59
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KDay Angell 🪶🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ :
You are loved 💕🤟🪶
2024-09-18 21:20:50
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Tripp :
🫂🫶🫂 I’m sorry it’s so heavy tonight
2024-09-18 12:16:03
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Chritter :
I wish I were there to sit with you and just listen, hand you tissues and let you express all your pain. Let it out friend, we’re here to listen.
2024-09-18 07:36:39
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E R I C A C H R I S T I N E :
That ambush be crazy!!! Random af just bust out crying!!! 🥺🥺
2024-09-20 11:23:13
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***Tiffany*** :
Big hugs💜💜
2024-09-20 00:01:47
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unbrokenlife :
It’s been 9 years and I sleep weep on all our birthdays and anniversaries. Hugs 🤗
2024-09-19 18:00:04
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Rock Star :
The animal hood, is that a wolf?
...so does that make you a lone wolf? 🫣🫢
Too soon? Too soon. I'ma go.
2024-09-19 12:02:30
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🦋_Lisa_🦋 :
🫂🫂🫂
2024-09-19 02:07:36
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🦋 Kelly 🦋🌈 :
🫂🫂🫂❤️🩹❤️🩹
2024-09-19 00:07:44
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Michelle :
❤️🫂❤️
2024-09-18 23:27:47
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✨Sylvia✨️Inspiring Women :
Grief ambush...I'm stealing that because it's so accurate. Ambush me anytime...I'm probably awake😏
2024-09-18 22:38:11
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Tasha The Grateful Widow :
hugs & prayers. I'mma start praying for God to build us a WWE ring just inside the pearly gates, like the vestibule. And have all our spouses lined up!
2024-09-18 21:51:30
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Calkan :
Thanks for inviting us to sit with you through this horrendous time. 😭
2024-09-18 19:56:40
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xsofjess :
Dark humor helps but grief is still grief and the pain is still there. ❤️It’s okay to feel it
2024-09-18 18:01:32
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ashkispyd3g999 :
Whew…those heavy moments…when you have the realization that this is actually permanent and it hits you so hard. All those hopes and dreams we had together.. just gone😢
2024-09-18 17:02:33
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Ulanka Beckom :
🥰🤣thanks for be vulnerable
2024-09-18 14:51:03
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danni🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
Right here with you 🖤 those heavy moments coming out of nowhere are crushing. I’m so sorry you have to miss him.
2024-09-18 12:01:18
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GenXWidow :
Rogue grief wave hit for me yesterday too.
2024-09-18 10:51:11
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Kolby Terry :
Lindsays 2 year accident date is on the 28th, exactly 10 more days. And then his death date is the 8th of October. So much pain in such a small fragment of time. I’m here 💕
2024-09-18 07:41:31
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#hondagirl67 :
You are an amazing woman. Widow sisters forever. ❤️❤️🙏
2024-09-21 22:20:21
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Queen Mother Unicorn :
Big hugs.
2024-09-20 10:39:03
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Mar 💓 :
Grief ambush is an incredible term beloved --- you staying open & letting it flow through you; that's all you!! thank you for sharing what strength & vulnerability look like ❤️praying for you
2024-09-19 17:03:38
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Deeleo213 :
He will always have a part of your heart and through the happiest times, the thoughts of him made come and the tears are uncontri often. I lost my fiancé in 2012…now engaged and I still cry over him
2024-09-19 14:53:52
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💜⭐️One_Badass_Navy Widow⭐️💜 :
💔Hugs 🫂 we ride the roller coaster of emotions and sometimes it harder, love you
2024-09-19 13:17:42
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not that karen2 :
🫂🫂🫂🫂
2024-09-19 11:22:14
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~*jigglepoof*~ :
❤️❤️
2024-09-19 10:04:17
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Alicia Casper :
Man i understand this more than anything been laying here awake since 3 thinking about everything also it’s now 5am and i have to get up for work now 😭😭
2024-09-19 08:59:58
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lucyishername :
🫶🏽
2024-09-19 08:55:04
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Airiam Uribe :
Sending you hugs and love momma
2024-09-19 08:20:36
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Clara Lyons :
oh wister...🫂 reliving the loss is the thorn in our side which we live with and it twists when we least expect it. the literal bane of our new existence. the effing grief waves. 😔
2024-09-19 06:48:13
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TawanaPR :
Praying for you my widow sister. Love, peace, and blessings Queen. 👑
2024-09-19 04:08:29
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Beautiful Life :
(((HUGS))). You are not alone. We feel you😢
2024-09-19 03:50:39
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🪽Knowangelphotos 🪽 :
After losing my husband I found a group on facebook called “grief speaks out” when I tell you that group and the owner herself, itself saved me. Find it please. I’ll sit with you and listen.
2024-09-19 03:14:52
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whatsyour18 :
((((HUGS)))) Here’s a life line——————> Hang on.❤️❤️❤️
2024-09-19 03:10:14
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Nora McInerny :
Oh buddy! I wish I could hug you!!!
2024-09-19 02:10:07
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DaMama :
I love you Sis! There must've been something in the air. Yesterday was Allan's birthday, I was in a daze all day trying to not breakdown then my grandson said, "he really was a great Grandfather"😭😭
2024-09-19 01:17:31
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Susan13 :
I’m right there with you. This all sucks.
2024-09-19 00:30:10
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mommamoona :
I had the hardest time at night….work was a distraction. Be kind to yourself 💔🙏
2024-09-19 00:04:42
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sparksfly_61 :
It’s literally the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with. It’s all the little things. Hugs honey
2024-09-19 00:03:31
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darksapphire5401 :
(((Hugs))) 🥺🥺🥺
2024-09-19 00:00:20
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James Smith :
much love to you! the nights are always harder.
2024-09-18 23:12:07
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