@chris_hatfield: Why your avoidant ex suggests staying friends after breakup #avoidantattachment #avoidant #breakup #breakupadvice #friendship #anxiousattachment #attachment

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nolanmllr
Nolan :
my ex is both of these. she was upset when I didn't want to be her friend.
2024-09-20 05:46:04
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flyin2wheeler
P R :
normally to manipulate you and use you. cut the cord is the best thing to do
2024-11-07 08:23:01
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bagelbites06
bagelbites06 :
i stayed friends with my avoidant ex… they stay until they get with someone else and all of a sudden they don’t care about your friendship anymore😂
2024-10-14 02:03:17
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connormackduncan
Connor Duncan :
Jokes on them, I immediately required more vulnerability because I know as an adult being friends with someone you love is hard.
2024-09-18 23:30:51
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psychointraining04
Carlisle :
but I've developed such a strong attachment that it's really hard for me not to have them in my life- I dunno. I just wish the problem they felt in the relationship was one I was able to fix
2024-10-07 15:04:56
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kyliestar594
Kylie_05 :
Nope, just went straight no contact for a year. I forgive him and get that’s the way he copes, but it felt unfair. It made it a thousand times more painful, but I wish him the absolute best. It showed
2024-10-11 02:03:05
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cxldinaninstant
CXLDInAnInstant Podcast :
always no to staying friends, always, I have enough friends, I'm not interested in muddling my waters
2024-09-20 14:28:16
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ustogljena_pundja
Nat :
Offering to stay in contact then not following through and becoming less responsive… whyy, what’s the point 😐
2024-09-26 13:36:26
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corinnecharest
Corinne 🇨🇦 :
he wants to stay friends only so he doesn't feel guilty discarding me out of the blue after 3 years
2024-09-24 13:11:22
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bladieblad1
bladiebla :
they are dependant on your supply. the best way is to walk away.
2024-09-18 16:33:11
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platoonis2024
ChipTok :
It’s a manipulation strategy. Move on with your life
2024-10-08 03:25:24
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storm.childd
StormChildd :
Oh god how I needed to hear this tonight 😮‍💨
2024-09-19 02:45:53
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nina_bug26
Sukunas🧿Toy :
I discarded him out of the blue and asked to stay friends. it’s been a few months, he finally went to contact, and now I’m devasted beyond belief. all this love I have for him came crashing back..
2024-10-23 01:35:10
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aaron.fears
Aaron :
Put this on HIS fyp. 😭
2024-10-12 06:14:01
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wasnumber1
SMITTY WERBENMANJENSEN ☝️ :
If I lived a whole life before them and without them…. I think I’ll be fine going back to that, but with better and higher standards.
2024-09-20 21:46:12
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0_ward
Reaper :
Don’t stay around at all they plotting against you
2024-10-19 06:22:43
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chuchuandmochi
ChuchuandMochi :
Manipulation and Dangerous
2024-11-17 00:53:16
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averilmao
averi<3 :
what do u do when they offer u friendship?
2024-09-18 16:36:01
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cremated0_0
Zaye D Morales :
it's worse when they string u along and go ghost when your trying to be closer
2024-10-20 23:52:03
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simpleconjugate
Andrew :
Or maybe some people are better together as just friends and a failed attempt at a romantic relationship doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t be friends.
2024-09-22 21:09:01
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tayarchival
ttakedra archives :
what if she asked to be friends and is still intimate with me 🤔
2024-09-20 15:30:53
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jackt987
jack :
She said she doesn’t want to do an actual break, she wants to take a break for a few months but stay best friends but she said she’ll stay loyal to me? Do I do this or do I just go on an actual break
2024-11-21 17:51:38
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stonealmighty
stonealmighty :
My ex wanted this so she could essentially have an open relationship behind my back while I yearned and fought for her
2024-10-09 21:25:55
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