I had this conversation TODAY with my 9 yo grandson. "But I was trying to help" they declined your help bud, we have to give people autonomy, no means no even when you think you're helping.
2024-09-20 02:29:31
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Kim :
as a medievalist who studies chivalry, they are also misunderstanding chivalry.
2024-09-20 15:06:44
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Auntes2cents :
The lessons I have learned from you. I feel like I owe you tuition. Keep making us proud outchea
2024-09-19 19:24:40
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mswigg84 :
"If your niceties can't survive equity" 🎯
2024-09-20 12:41:14
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nocturneisabundant :
It makes me feel extremely safe just knowing that you exist and are out here sharing your perspective, education and wisdom with all of us. Thank you for being you 🫶🏻
2024-09-19 21:35:12
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K Tish💕 :
And from the perspective of a woman, eventually, she would’ve realized that the water was pouring to her back because the wetness of the water would have eventually caught her attention.
2024-09-20 11:52:25
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Roixalti :
where are your classes located. im signing up for 4 years🥰🥰
2024-09-19 19:30:42
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KhafreJay :
Boundaries and empathy
2024-09-19 19:29:00
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Darc_Grimm :
i experienced something in the reverse i think you could say. so i work for a shipping company loading trucks and i enjoy my job but i have bpd and sometimes if i get frustrated i look angry
2024-09-19 20:24:02
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se7ered :
It's like when you hold a door open for a person that is too far away. They have to jog to the door and everything gets awkward. Chivalry has boundaries. Love it.
2024-09-21 07:36:45
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Jenn :
I hope men don't stop being nice like this tho. the fact that you respected her and even went to another sister for help. i personally would have appreciated it! thank you!! ---
2024-09-21 04:59:45
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Smc387 :
One of your best.
2024-09-19 19:22:11
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HagridHair🫠Heather :
just gained a follower with this 🥰
2024-09-20 12:05:51
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Chaos Coordinator Co :
Wow what a great lesson. I’ve heard the feminism killed chivalry and didn’t agree but this is eye opening on the subject. Thank you!
2024-09-19 21:15:10
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Shongbird1 :
KINDNESS IS STILL A NATURE NOT AN ACT ONLY
2024-09-20 16:57:38
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wishxuxchdu :
Is there proof that “chivalry” as we know it was widely practiced to begin with? It seems connected to invented romantic nostalgia.
2024-09-20 07:34:14
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Sarah :
she figured out your kindness later when you weren't around. Hopefully she will self reflect on her own assumptions 🥺
2024-09-20 15:03:17
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Starkindler :
I was walking to the dining hall at college with my BF (future hubby) and a guy from our dorm. I get to the door, open it, walk through, holding it open behind me if I recall for them.
2024-09-19 22:11:20
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Meredith :
All of this! Also, I agree about "niceness." I'd suggest that we need more of is kindness, and it's unkind to ignore someone's boundaries. Your story explained that perfectly. I appreciate all the work you do.
2024-09-19 23:11:46
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Lumiya :
You tried to help and then respected her boundaries and how she was feeling. Sucks about her purse, but having boundaries respected? Worth it! She feels safe and we are all learning. As a woman I
2024-09-20 14:31:38
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Megha :
I hope the people who need to hear hear this message are reached by the video! You never miss. Thank you! And I learned some thing about the history of of chivalry, too!
2024-09-19 21:04:59
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LivingLife :
I agree with this perspective 👍🏽
2024-09-20 16:48:38
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Ziggy :
1) The attempt at kindness is always the correct choice, forcing that kindness after being declined negates any attempt previously made. How ppl perceive your actions is their choice, and respecting
2024-09-23 20:56:44
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