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I've never had an issue knowing exactly what my friends want from me just by using context clues. you absolutely can tell what someone wants without them directly communicating if you're smart enough
2024-09-21 20:59:46
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Alicya :
“People pleasers” and “nice” people when you do one slip up or don’t return a favour back on something you didn’t even ask for them to do in first place 💀
2024-09-20 15:08:13
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Jake :
former ppl pleaser here! For me, it's bc every time I tried communicating in the past, an argument would ensue and I'd be blamed for starting it. I was raised to shove everything down.
2024-09-24 13:05:32
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E l l a ✝️ :
I’m sorry but this is wxactly what I’m doing. I’m a people pleaser cutting her off because I’ve forgiven her way too many times and apology without change is not a real apology.
2025-01-09 03:14:02
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ridley :
idk sometimes it’s like why do I have to explain to someone that they should respect me atp I’d just drop them
2024-09-21 03:44:47
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dylan! 🕷 :
A lot of you in the comments are NOT getting the point of this 😭
2024-09-21 12:17:30
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nat 👾 :
I tend to build resentment after multiple times of communicating and things not changing bc then i feel like im begging
2024-09-21 14:25:22
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Criice33 :
talking about feelings feels so yucky to me though. id rather just stew in anger
2024-09-24 18:11:16
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that_little_ginger :
Boundaries, morals, likes and dislikes are not universal. The ‘well they should just know that would offend me!’ Is typically unreasonable. It’s your job to communicate your boundaries and feelings.
2024-09-21 17:22:05
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KevinShmevin :
after you hurt someone they don't owe you an explanation of what you've done, they are in every right to just leave the situation 😭, I mean unless they just dipped out of thin air??
2024-09-23 17:49:57
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✨️SykoCinnaBun✨️ :
It's more so being non-confrontational. I very rarely bring up if someone's upset me, but I will change my behaviour accordingly. if you notice, great! if not, I'm not gonna be mad, I'm just gonna go.
2024-09-21 19:23:36
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𖤐 Ly. 𖤐 :
i fear this is me chat
2024-09-20 20:02:19
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dj :
me but also there are just some things i shouldnt have to communicate and if i do we arent compatible idk
2024-09-21 06:17:28
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nate :
honestly me
2024-09-20 15:13:32
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leanna :
Me personally I got tired of only being kept as a friend if I was benefiting them in some way so I quietly make my exit, it’s more peaceful than trying to parent
2024-09-23 02:09:05
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nullndvoid :
don’t let this guilt you, people know exactly what they’re doing
2024-09-23 21:10:09
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𝕸𝖆𝖗𝖘𝖍𝖆🚬 :
im a people pleaser myself but i still communicate, its no excuse
2024-09-21 10:56:08
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𝖗𝖔𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖊 :
think we're mind readers or somethin 💀 I get combative when it happens too like you cannot be serious
2024-09-21 15:30:09
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⭐️ Maggie ⭐️ :
For me, I brought the same issues up five times and things never improved...so. 🤷♀️Yes, I did block them after the fact, but they'd probably tell you it was "random"
2024-09-21 17:56:55
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thebigfinsquid :
Especially when you do manage to pick up on it so you ask directly if something you’re doing is hurting them and they say it isn’t, until one day they claim it was a problem all along
2024-09-22 08:38:35
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Usernotfound :
I communicated and i regretted.. Just saying some people are well aware of what they’re doing..
2024-09-22 17:56:30
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🌿 :
idk i feel like people are allowed to decide that they actually hate you and the things you do one day. this has happened to me and its kinda just 🤷🏾
2024-09-21 21:05:14
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tomasbyb :
for me it starts of with «i dont want to be a bother bringing this up» then slowly it becomes resentment and then now i am «justified» not being friends with them because of something they did agesago
2024-09-21 09:14:55
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Dominika Trufla :
welp, that was/is? me, the people pleaser that broke off a friendship bc of the build up resentment etc. The anserw to this why, is so wierd - I didn't know any better at the time, also-
2024-10-27 20:03:30
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