@ryanmmichaels: just because i think someone is cute, doesn’t mean anything to me. like i can think you’re physically hot and cute, but that doesn’t do nothing good for me. i have no idea what you’re personality is like until we’ve had a conversation. i fall in love with somebody because of their personality. i don’t care what they do etc, i just care if they’re a nice person. but it sure would be nice to have a partner that pairs well and doesn’t attempt to clash personalities. i can admire someone for having character traits of cute and hot, but that does not serve enough of the dilemma bc i wanna get to know you on a deeper level.