Wait I’m confused is Rodrigo not ur biological brother?
2026-03-08 01:24:40
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DaBlessing✨ :
Girl i use to get beat out my sleep for not doing dishes 😩
2025-10-15 17:13:18
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Kimmie Blanco :
You’re not being sensitive at all. It’s the humiliation behind it. It hurts
2026-03-07 22:21:52
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Jazzy bell5 :
That’s why i allow my kids to explain things to me. My mom was very high strung and I have anxiety and isolate myself a lot.
2024-09-26 21:59:40
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💖𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓵𝔂_𝓒𝓮𝓬𝓮💖 :
It's not just black moms; black aunts too. I was raised by my aunt, and she treated me like this too.
2025-07-11 23:23:36
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Diasia 🫧 :
Why am I just finding this series! This happened to me but instead got yanked out of bed and work up to yelling around that time …. It’s crazy bc now looking back our black mothers are the cause for a lot of our trust issues, anger, anxiety, depression, ect. And I don’t know if it’s an eldest daughter thing or what! I’m working so hard to reverse all of the trauma now in my mid 20’s so it doesn’t spill into my romantic relationships, friendships and relationships with my own kids in the future ❤
2025-10-15 15:41:43
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Ashley Nicole :
I forgot to wash the dishes as a kid and my mom woke me up in the middle of the night and I got dressed for school lbs she was like why are you dressed ?! Wash the dishes ! I was mad as hell
2024-09-25 11:53:55
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🎀 :
it’s crazy how we have all gone through things like this with black moms.. thank you for sharing your story 🤍
2024-09-26 01:33:47
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𒆜ɴᴇɴᴇ 💛 :
i love that your using your voice and telling your story I wish I had the strength 💞
2024-09-25 01:09:16
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taliabianca96 :
Being gone for days is something I never understood with parents, if my kids can’t go I’m not going
2024-09-25 12:53:33
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Sweetchai🧿 :
You don’t have to apologize on how you felt you have every right to feel how u felt
2024-09-24 23:57:48
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ChristinaJ :
Omg the grandmother part 🥺 I miss mine she saved me from the trauma and my mom ! I cried when she died because i knew nobody would safe me like she did 💕
2024-10-01 22:38:53
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Mazi vs. Mazi :
Where is part 2
2025-12-17 20:34:27
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Aviiiii💕 worldwide🥰 :
Yeahhhhhh speak for the ladies that can’t!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰 Love this for you💕💕
2024-09-30 00:30:59
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Trinnnnn 💓 :
I love youuuuuuu
2024-09-25 01:31:06
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Paris ⛈️ :
Love you spot 🥹🩵
2024-09-24 23:04:00
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Anansi the Virgo :
My mom used to do that to me and to this day I do not wash dishes if I can help it. I absolutely hated this.
2024-10-05 21:40:57
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Naja🧸🫧🌷 :
wish I could hug you every time you tell this story🫂🩵
2024-09-24 23:04:09
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Yeathatsbree___ :
I’ve just recently discovered your page, and watched your baby journey then I saw people leaving comments about “tales of lotus” so I went searching for that story and Olin already filled with chills and tears because this story is way too familiar. I’ve been stranger from my mom for a little over a year and I’ve been so scared to share my story, afraid of who’s feelings I may hurt. I’m going to use your story as a guide, a courageous path to possibly follow. I have to start to heal completely. Thanks for sharing.
2025-10-16 23:11:06
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miisspiscess💋 :
My mother did that before she made me clean the house up like 3 ina morning 😂
2024-09-26 21:12:51
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Machandria :
Thank you for sharing. This is only part one and I’m already sad.
2024-09-25 02:15:13
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Maré Bou :
Thank you for sharing your story 🥹🫶🏾
2024-09-25 00:30:54
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imsoooJassy :
Beautiful, where is Opelika I’m from LA is that in the south somewhere?
2025-07-17 01:50:59
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Maisha Símone :
Where the part 2 to this??
2026-01-27 00:29:28
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