Absolutely not the A. They are using him for his $. He sounds like a bit of an A as a person, but he made a fair choice in this situation.
2024-09-27 14:25:23
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. :
L take. NTA, they can’t just think they can spend his money and use his properties for free. That’s not how life works
2024-09-27 19:43:20
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deb :
can't say I like these commentators
2025-01-27 03:46:57
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𝕂𝕖𝕟𝕪𝕒 🧚🏾♀️ :
The family thinks he’s an addict but they accept his money.
2024-09-27 18:35:38
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Iron fist in a velvet glove :
It doesn’t matter why they made that agreement or that it was manipulative, that was the agreement. The brother agreed
2024-09-27 17:02:35
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hillymily :
Yeah he seems like the AH he's like the sponsor of the wedding demanding to be involved in the process, something he seemingly has never done for his family before.
2024-09-27 16:49:10
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LauraAndrijeski :
Sounds like it from the title, but titles are misleading, so let’s listen
2024-09-28 15:18:38
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paulabarndollar :
I don't think OP's an AH. He offered the venue rent free as long as he was in the wedding party. If they uninvited him from the wedding party they can find somewhere else to have the wedding.
2024-10-01 01:57:14
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Crystal Rose :
Nooooo you're not the AH 🙄
2024-10-11 08:43:45
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S :
Ppl who think op is the ahole are entitled af like bro that’s not even ur property
2024-09-28 02:20:27
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slick1172 :
bro if thats the reason then no he isnt the ahole. if they dont want him in the wedding party because of it, then that would mean the house could have some in it. they just want his stuff.
2024-09-27 19:19:51
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Niki :
He offered and had a condition for it. A reasonable one at that. They said no so he said nevermind then. It’s not nice but NTA
2024-09-27 16:38:50
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Bruce Shepherd :
if it’s so serious they don’t want him in their wedding party they can def find an alternate venue
2024-09-27 17:44:08
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alannasagebiel :
Not the ah. It was a verbal contract and agreement. Venue for being involved. The payment, being involved, wasn't given. Cancellation of venue seems like a fair action
2024-09-27 16:14:32
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Dani 💖 Noel :
NTA. it’s pretty clear that they agreed to this. Do you know how expensive a wedding venue is!?? And he’s giving it to them for free????
2024-09-27 20:18:24
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Angela 🇨🇴🇬🇧 :
NTA. He layed out his conditions, they accepted, then they went back on the conditions, so should he... 🤷♀️He's the AH for other things, but not on this exactly
2024-09-27 20:17:41
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Rosssita 🥀 :
It’s a NO op is NTA
2024-09-27 17:30:33
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J.Gabriel.G :
The contract was rental property = part of the wedding party. Brother breached the contract so NTA
2024-09-27 19:35:50
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American Mayhem :
NTA as its at his house and being part of the wedding party secures that respect is given to the property.
2024-09-27 19:45:30
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Hell 🇨🇦 :
NTA at all. but je not a person I wish having around.
2024-09-27 16:17:03
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Juju :
I like him 😭😂
2024-09-27 19:38:59
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Ishmael Wolf :
hosting a wedding is expensive and potentially damaging to the venue. all he asked was to be part of the wedding. he is entirely justified
2024-09-28 15:34:34
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jonathan andaluz :
he should have reminded them of the deal before cancelling but a deal is a deal and his brother went back on it
2024-09-27 18:19:22
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