Lanna
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Sunshine :
"Relationships deepen, one difficult conversation at a time because you learn to trust that I can be in conflict with this person without losing them."
2024-10-02 19:00:23
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Tomatotoast :
Avoidant ppl hearing this: 👻
2024-10-13 17:42:27
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Cassandra :
and the converse someone who refuses to have difficult conversations with you really doesn't value you as a person at all
2024-10-01 20:35:35
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Rome Rosario :
Sadly, I’ve lost many friends over a single difficult conversation and I’m the bad guy 🤷🏽♂️
2024-10-01 21:41:58
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OnyxSardonyx :
people take serious conversations as a threat
2024-10-03 01:06:16
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hotgirlsage :
and starting that difficult conversation probably took a lot of effort/ courage 🥺
2024-10-02 04:32:05
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Alicia :
Ok, but I don’t like having them 😭
2024-10-08 19:32:39
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Lanna :
this is from my “things to look at when i’m having a meltdown” list in my notes app of reminders that are positive/grounding that help me, reassure me, give me hope, etc
2024-10-01 18:48:10
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Aaron 🌀🧠 Disordered Mind :
Ehhhh. Sometimes they’re just getting off on criticizing you. But generally, yes.
2024-10-01 20:31:28
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tama :
what is a "difficult conversation"?
2024-11-06 03:15:38
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thatbaldfvck :
And when trying to have that conversation is met with “stop using my patterns against me” there’s no hope unfortunately
2024-10-02 06:52:42
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Jonseyforyou :
Sometimes it's too late. If someone doesnt want that conversation, respect that. It's a two way street.
2024-10-12 08:34:54
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Kam :
I just realized over 14 years of marriage she never brought me a problem. her problems only came up to dialect from mine...
2024-10-23 14:49:23
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777 :
this is nice in theory but people and situations aren't so straight forward or black/white. In my case the person making a huge fanfare of having the "mature difficult" conversation was not at all
2024-10-17 10:36:57
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butcharchivist :
Relationships are made or broken by how someone responds to a person trying to have an open and honest conversation
2024-10-03 19:49:44
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Jasper :
Generally I agree, but I’ve had to many other people initiate ‘difficult conversations’ with me and then become more upset and distant
2024-10-02 20:12:31
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blAxE :
I agree 100%. BUT, sometimes the way they approach you is way too intense and abrasive. There needs to be a balance, so that both people feel safe opening to each other.
2024-10-11 06:42:36
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Angie :
I'm lucky to have found 2 friends that are always willing to talk things out with me/each other when something doesn't feel right 🥹 1/2
2024-10-13 00:17:34
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moo_cow4675 :
Show this to their fyp not mine!!!
2024-10-02 00:17:49
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Silvrrr System :
i have to remind myself of this all the time when my bpd instinct is to cut someone off at the slightest conflict. i have to tell myself “instead of running away because you think they’d be better (1)
2024-10-26 22:09:44
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Jayy :
Honestly my husband is slowly healing me because he forces me to have hard conversations 😭😭 it sucks but we both grow!
2024-10-05 05:43:43
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august 🆘 🇺🇸 :
eh, I had a "difficult conversation" where they lied and said all my friends are frustrated with me for being autistic when it was actually just him lol
2024-10-01 22:13:46
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Will 🇳🇿 :
That can be hard to remember in the moment though
2024-10-01 19:10:14
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