"Relationships deepen, one difficult conversation at a time because you learn to trust that I can be in conflict with this person without losing them."
2024-10-02 19:00:23
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Rome Rosario :
Sadly, I’ve lost many friends over a single difficult conversation and I’m the bad guy 🤷🏽♂️
2024-10-01 21:41:58
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tama :
what is a "difficult conversation"?
2024-11-06 03:15:38
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hotgirlsage :
and starting that difficult conversation probably took a lot of effort/ courage 🥺
2024-10-02 04:32:05
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yavae :
and if you’ve burnt out the difficult conversation efforts, or straight up don’t want to have them, then that’s someone who you probably just don’t want in your life anymore & that’s ok 💗
2024-10-06 05:50:15
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Nandini :
Especially when it’s already hard for them to have a difficult conversation with anyone they care about.
2024-10-03 08:44:51
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Suburban Forest :
I lost my friend of 16 years over a difficult conversation she refused to have with me.
2024-10-13 19:16:47
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Katnip ♡ :
What if the difficult conversation is “I want to break up” lol
2024-10-15 17:29:46
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Carlydoe :
To be vulnerable in a difficult conversation is so tough
2024-10-09 04:18:31
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Souwen :
not always, I had a difficult conversation with my last friend group and it were all things I could work on, just for them to say and that's why we don't want to be friends anymore
2024-11-05 19:18:48
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vinnie :
it depends if that person is sitting you down for a "difficult conversation" every other day and it's just to tell your everything they don't like about you from your hair, skin type, weight, fashion,
2024-11-10 18:23:35
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hollidazed_and_confused :
Unless the difficult conversation is that they’re leaving or don’t want you in their life anymore. 😅 But otherwise yeah I agree.
2024-10-02 23:55:03
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𝑷𝒊𝒏𝒌 𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 :
why is it that sometimes when i do have a difficult conversation trying to clear out issues, they suddenly start thinking they're better than me?
2024-11-06 05:46:01
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Chris 🎀 :
Sadly, I kept losing friends just because they can't have that difficult conversation with me. I stopped reaching out.
2024-10-14 05:15:43
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ARadiantDawn :
I believe that this is generally true. It’s important to note that if you start a difficult conversation and the person cannot engage, it’s not probably about you. They just may need more healing or
2024-10-20 08:23:16
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hardgeeklife :
The difficult conversation was that they cheated on me and didn't love me anymore sooooooo 🙃🙃🙃
2024-10-02 17:17:33
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Tomatotoast :
Avoidant ppl hearing this: 👻
2024-10-13 17:42:27
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Lanna :
this is from my “things to look at when i’m having a meltdown” list in my notes app of reminders that are positive/grounding that help me, reassure me, give me hope, etc
2024-10-01 18:48:10
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Cassandra :
and the converse someone who refuses to have difficult conversations with you really doesn't value you as a person at all
2024-10-01 20:35:35
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ForestWench :
I’ve learned that ppl who avoid conflict don’t think much about u at all, they are absorbed w thinking about self preservation 100% of the time. Blaming you is part of keeping their self image in tact
2024-10-09 02:59:13
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butcharchivist 🇵🇸🌿 :
Relationships are made or broken by how someone responds to a person trying to have an open and honest conversation
2024-10-03 19:49:44
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Churrosauce :
I agree 100%. BUT, sometimes the way they approach you is way too intense and abrasive. There needs to be a balance, so that both people feel safe opening to each other.
2024-10-11 06:42:36
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Jonseyforyou :
Sometimes it's too late. If someone doesnt want that conversation, respect that. It's a two way street.
2024-10-12 08:34:54
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theuglydun :
people take serious conversations as a threat
2024-10-03 01:06:16
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thatbaldfvck :
And when trying to have that conversation is met with “stop using my patterns against me” there’s no hope unfortunately
2024-10-02 06:52:42
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