Those dismissive avoidants. Don’t want to feel their feelings. And in turn will neglect your feelings.
2024-10-05 10:51:03
5633
Fit_for_Flight :
Reframe: people who have become emotionally detached through trauma cannot adequately process the personal significance of emotion in others.
2024-10-05 18:43:08
32289
Radicalyul :
I disagree. I’m avoidant and I always prioritize others feelings. It depends on a person
2024-10-05 07:55:14
4098
Anna Klein 🍍 :
joke's on you cause i avoid my own feelings by focusing on the feelings of other people 🙃
2024-10-05 14:43:27
2302
𝓑𝓻𝓸𝔀𝓷.𝓼𝓾𝓰𝓪𝓻 (^•~) :
And they can only meet you as deeply as they are willing to meet themselves🥺
2024-10-05 05:55:17
6977
adelerzv :
people who are at war with themselves cannot give you peace
2024-10-06 20:41:30
2451
YL :
when people say "you can't love someone else properly if you don't love yourself", this is what that means.
2024-10-05 04:44:01
6038
Al City 🌷✨🍉 :
So many people in the comments saying “no i ignore my feelings for others feelings” don’t realize that’s also harmful to more than just you. You neeeed to work on and heal 💕
2024-10-05 15:15:57
1280
Austin Amy :
My ex husband would stare at me confused when I cried. Then he would walk away because it made him uncomfortable. Wild behavior.
2024-10-05 12:19:19
4406
snackdealermom2 :
I’m gonna be honest, no that’s not true. I often neglect my own feelings but intensely care about everyone else’s feelings.
2024-10-08 23:15:31
451
Hannah Stroud Visser :
I just learned a lot about myself in 4 seconds…
2024-10-05 04:06:36
983
Zoe Bowen :
No girl,Some of us have been raised to not show our feelings as that is “weak” so when we see someone struggling we want to help as we didn’t get that,it heals the inner child
2024-10-05 10:08:53
352
Rick Bender :
Not true, in fact I’ve seen it be the opposite. People who neglect their own feelings can often latch onto overly caring about someone else’s feelings, essentially abandoning their own for yours
2024-10-08 07:13:39
381
Danielle Black :
The algorithm is algorithim-ing a little too much 😬
2024-10-05 03:37:57
955
~**~ :
Some people neglect their own feeling s because they are so worried about others feelings that they put theirs before their own
2024-10-05 10:16:25
213
Malia 🧝♀️ :
not true because I ignore my own and put my fiances needa above myself
2024-10-05 12:58:33
33
Arianna Hawkins :
As someone who avoids emotions. True. I actively avoid the people I love when I’m in this space cause I know I’m going to inadvertently hurt them cause I’m just not fully here…
2024-10-05 22:23:39
173
James :
People who focus too much on their own feelings tend to have no time for other people’s feelings in my opinion.
2024-10-06 00:16:25
74
Dr. Bach | Trauma Therapist :
Not entirely true! Many people, like people pleasers, are very attuned to others and do not attend to their own needs.
2024-10-22 02:11:19
9
ziggyzaggyn :
That’s simply not true. I only care about others feelings as a way to avoid my own. And I deeeeeeply care about others. So much that it hurts. I love HARD
2024-10-05 04:24:06
221
Tracy J Hoffman 🇸🇪 :
I don't agree.. It's the other way we care about everyone else more than ourselves
2024-10-06 08:34:32
145
Lila56819 :
I think you just summed up my marriage 👀 (we are currently in the process of separating)
2024-10-05 02:13:14
156
Mo | Growth & Healing🌹 :
Why didn’t you tell me this years ago!?? 😫
2024-10-05 02:04:02
442
To see more videos from user @unbotheredclub, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.