Those dismissive avoidants. Don’t want to feel their feelings. And in turn will neglect your feelings.
2024-10-05 10:51:03
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livingonsaturn :
I think my brain just fully developed
2024-10-05 02:32:21
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MJ.Fit_for_Flight :
Reframe: people who have become emotionally detached through trauma cannot adequately process the personal significance of emotion in others.
2024-10-05 18:43:08
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Radicalyul :
I disagree. I’m avoidant and I always prioritize others feelings. It depends on a person
2024-10-05 07:55:14
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YL :
when people say "you can't love someone else properly if you don't love yourself", this is what that means.
2024-10-05 04:44:01
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Austin Amy :
My ex husband would stare at me confused when I cried. Then he would walk away because it made him uncomfortable. Wild behavior.
2024-10-05 12:19:19
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Anna Klein 🍍 :
joke's on you cause i avoid my own feelings by focusing on the feelings of other people 🙃
2024-10-05 14:43:27
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Zoe Bowen :
No girl,Some of us have been raised to not show our feelings as that is “weak” so when we see someone struggling we want to help as we didn’t get that,it heals the inner child
2024-10-05 10:08:53
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nick :
frontal lobe just processed some serious information
2024-10-05 04:55:08
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Al City 🍉 :
So many people in the comments saying “no i ignore my feelings for others feelings” don’t realize that’s also harmful to more than just you. You neeeed to work on and heal 💕
2024-10-05 15:15:57
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Tracy J Hoffman :
I don't agree.. It's the other way we care about everyone else more than ourselves
2024-10-06 08:34:32
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Arianna Hawkins :
As someone who avoids emotions. True. I actively avoid the people I love when I’m in this space cause I know I’m going to inadvertently hurt them cause I’m just not fully here…
2024-10-05 22:23:39
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𝓑𝓻𝓸𝔀𝓷.𝓼𝓾𝓰𝓪𝓻 (^•~) :
And they can only meet you as deeply as they are willing to meet themselves🥺
2024-10-05 05:55:17
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ziggyzaggyn :
That’s simply not true. I only care about others feelings as a way to avoid my own. And I deeeeeeply care about others. So much that it hurts. I love HARD
2024-10-05 04:24:06
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Jolene :
Not true at all in my experience.
2024-10-05 16:14:07
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Hannah Stroud Visser :
I just learned a lot about myself in 4 seconds…
2024-10-05 04:06:36
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Rick Bender :
Not true, in fact I’ve seen it be the opposite. People who neglect their own feelings can often latch onto overly caring about someone else’s feelings, essentially abandoning their own for yours
2024-10-08 07:13:39
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Andrew Lazo :
And if they’re going to therapy, they’re extremely likely either manipulating their therapist or not telling the entire truth.
2024-10-05 03:34:11
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Malia 🧝♀️ :
not true because I ignore my own and put my fiances needa above myself
2024-10-05 12:58:33
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~**~ :
Some people neglect their own feeling s because they are so worried about others feelings that they put theirs before their own
2024-10-05 10:16:25
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Æmelián :
Wrong, people repress their feeling all the time, especially those who have experienced trauma. But their loved ones happiness can still be paramount to them.
2024-10-06 01:07:56
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Zlaurenkb :
Oh you just ate with this. One of my best friends in this life neglected tf out of my feelings when I presented them to her…but for years I’ve always been validating of hers. How ironic
2024-10-05 12:39:11
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Anne Shafena :
my frontal lobe just clapped
2024-10-05 07:55:14
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Danielle Black :
The algorithm is algorithim-ing a little too much 😬
2024-10-05 03:37:57
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James :
People who focus too much on their own feelings tend to have no time for other people’s feelings in my opinion.
2024-10-06 00:16:25
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