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EdDawg420 :
so they push away the ones that care about them while running to those that only want to use them in one way or another
2024-10-05 16:06:00
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JetsettingGinger :
They leave because they are running away from the person they have to become to be with you
2024-10-05 22:04:25
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Kev B :
Honestly it must be nice to just turn your emotions off. Being left like that has ruined me for six months and I don’t have the luxury of just not feeling it.
2024-10-05 19:59:46
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An0m4ly :
So she really did love me then? As painful as this whole process is, it eases my mind a little bit knowing she loved me too.
2024-10-05 05:41:37
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BNave :
I am in love with an Avoidant. It freaking hurts!
2024-10-06 02:06:57
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Kurburt :
Parents just love Ur children pls
2024-10-14 03:46:02
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user3387146863732 :
Yep mine said "my feelings have changed" and when questioned about it he said " I don't know". That's all I got for his reasoning.
2024-10-05 17:46:23
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Halfbaggaming :
My ex pursued me, made me fall for them. We were together for damn near a year. And because I was going through a hard time and they felt neglected they left. After saying they saw a life with me.
2024-10-05 06:03:47
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Michael :
Thank you for this - her excuse was that we weren’t compatible and that we had nothing in common.. still doesn’t make sense to me. I would’ve never left her, which is what kills me the most
2024-10-05 12:55:05
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✨ Jen’s Journey ✨ :
Girl he brought me around his family, introduced me to his daughter, and was open to making future plans then out of the blue he ended it. It was so heartbreaking
2024-10-05 16:44:59
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Sandy💕 :
They can be so in love yet be emotionally distant with you but then cheat on you giving someone else effort that they can’t show you anymore. 🥺
2024-10-05 06:05:07
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Amy :
Why do they make you out to be the villain though? 7 years told me I was a amazing person to him and his dogs and turns around blames me for everything.
2024-10-05 11:00:30
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ዘ𐌀𐌍𐌍 :
They self sabotage because it’s too good and they thinking sooner or later it will end so they pulled themselves first
2024-10-28 17:55:41
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Sarco80s :
just heard this on another post "people who avoid their own feelings will neglect yours". This should tell you unless they work on themselves, it will not change.
2024-10-05 09:33:47
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Geee :
I knew he loved me 💯💀😆
2024-10-05 16:01:14
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CraaaaazyKid :
I think that's why it's so hard to move on after a da suddenly deactivates and ghosts us because we know how good things were and how much we loved each other. Ending it seems so unnecessary.
2024-10-06 01:59:12
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Odylia :
Yes! Whenever I start getting a constant ick and feeling irritated by them- I know I am really in love. It’s super important for the avoidant to know they are like this not to push real love away
2024-11-06 20:09:33
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wkirk0111 :
This is 100 percent accurate. I
2024-10-05 11:12:19
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BabyD2285 :
This makes me feel a little better. I have anxious attachment and currently in therapy to help heal and I’m now getting the answers I needed to understand the DA in my life
2024-10-06 04:15:36
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88CharlieDelta :
After the honeymoon phase, my avoidant triggered the 'next stage' talk. Ultimately she told me that while she did want to go there with me, she knew she had to do the work but didn't want to do it and didn't want to hurt me in the process. Some are self aware.
2024-10-13 00:32:46
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P :
So in a sense they never really move on? Why would they say they love me and one week later break up?
2024-10-05 11:39:17
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honeyless_indy :
Is there research evidence that they really don’t lose attraction? I thought they get an ick and can no longer see you attractive nor romantically due to that.
2024-10-05 05:33:35
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Mallory🦎 :
We’re married but he’s still avoidant
2024-10-05 06:04:34
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Jayyè Neviin :
I was married to one, and I can say that I knew he was dismissive and I realized that he left because he was falling deep and deeper in love with me.So he would cause issues just so he could pullaway
2024-10-05 15:52:26
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Ishtar :
How do they act when you are the one that cut the ties, because you did not like their behaviour, they tried coming back with the same behaviour but you still refused to take them back
2024-10-05 06:47:16
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