@wildshe_: Woman to woman, what advice would you give to another woman who is on the fence about having kids? #WomenOfTikTok #childfreewomen #womenempowerment
77 yrs old, never wanted kids, don’t regret it in the least. Happy life.
2024-10-06 17:58:47
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EkkiR :
Expect to do it all alone. Even if you’ve a partner.
2024-10-06 18:13:31
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sunshine.7606 :
don't do it unless you're ready to live for someone else & forget about yourself
2024-10-06 19:22:19
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Julie Hyatt :
If you’re not sure don’t do it. Better to regret not having them than having them and regretting it.
2024-10-06 17:15:40
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Fergie :
My daughter is the love of my life but I haven’t had a days peace since the day she was born and she’s 28 now. It’s a constant worry 😔
2024-10-06 17:26:47
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Kid Leymann :
You will always be lonely but never alone.
2024-10-06 18:30:23
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🌸 Cláudia 🌸 :
Do it for yourself and not anyone else. I really want children! I always wanted to be a mum. I separated from my child’s father and I don’t regret having a child bc it’s something I wanted anyway!
2024-10-06 17:35:43
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BigDogWanted :
Let your relatives take a kid free holiday and you babysit them for a few weeks. You will learn a lot about yourself
2024-10-07 15:14:53
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idiot_pigeon :
my mother had me because she wanted kids more than she wanted to be a parent, and I've been in therapy for nearly a decade
2024-10-06 17:32:36
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Chatoyant Lagniappe 🍀 :
My mom almost died from a heart condition when she was pregnant with my older brother. Please know that you are sacrificing your health and risking so much by creating new human beings !
2024-10-06 16:55:30
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Kitty Roars :
If you are not prepared for the possibility of being a single mum with those children and are hoping for the whole happy unit, I would think again. So many women end up doing everything by themselves.
2024-10-06 16:43:17
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Gem 🧷🇵🇸🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🫶🏼 :
I believe with my heart and soul that if it’s not a hard and fast yes then it’s a no.Lots of people see children as just babies but it’s a lifelong commitment, emotionally+financially.No from me!
2024-10-06 16:40:26
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ChildfreebyChoice_SA :
If you on the fence you don’t want children. You gotta be 100% sure. Consider how much your life would change and are you ready for that change in all aspects. 32 decided I love my life without kids
2024-10-06 19:40:47
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Josephine Thornander :
I desperately wanted children before, it was an ache so intense but then I healed my traumas & realized I was looking for something to fill that hole inside me-I realized I wanted puspose not children
2024-10-06 16:48:30
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qwerty :
my mom has good kids. we are no trouble makers. she loves us we love her. but my grandma lived the worst things thanks to her sons. having kids is gamble. know you are taking a huge risk🤷🏼♀️
2024-10-06 18:00:32
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Kati 🇫🇮 :
I really wanted kids. Like 3-4 of my own and get maried. When I was married and had two I felt like I was alone with 3 children. The reality hit when I divorced. I was playing out other peoples 1/2
2024-10-06 17:41:28
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ashleyamanda :
If you don’t want them then don’t have them. Don’t let people or expectations dictate how you live your life.
2024-10-06 16:51:22
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vlm :
dont do it.
2024-10-07 04:42:24
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marquise_et :
when in doubt, don't!
2024-10-06 20:57:15
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Patricia McDonald :
NO DONT DO IT if you are not 100 per cent sure 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2024-10-06 18:17:54
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Ginchen 🇩🇪 :
Do your math. It takes a lot of time and money. There are happy moments but others, too. When it’s over you are 20 some years older and there is no starting all over anymore.
2024-10-06 17:47:20
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TheHighPriestess2222 :
They are your mirror & cause the most growth/evolution in you which can be incredibly difficult but also incredibly joyful
2024-10-06 17:00:14
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