@coach.ryan0: Can avoidants change? Yes they can! But THEY have to want it. You can’t “fix” them, they have to do the work and be willing to do the work. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #Relationship #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach
I’m a DA/FA currently healing. Been self-aware of my attachment and issues for a year and 4 months. Not an easy process to heal from an insecure attachment, it doesn’t happen overnight.
2024-10-06 18:38:43
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BrianG :
Either self destruct or self reflect. Glad I chose reflection.
2024-10-06 18:48:02
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Hailey Wood :
What are avoidants thinking after a failed second chance for a relationship bc they pulled away again? Should I still go no contact?
2024-10-07 15:27:24
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Troy :
FA. I am trying. It is hard. I am trying to figure my triggers out. I am trying to be open with my partner.
2024-10-07 10:08:13
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fetch :
Can an avoidant be married for 25 years. Lonely
2024-10-07 01:46:08
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Alison Flynn :
Your videos & advice have helped me so much & to accept and understand why things didn’t work out & that it wasn’t my fault. The most amazing guy I ever met but sadly he didn’t want to change 😢
2024-10-06 19:19:16
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Wairua Rav :
Currently working on myself, working on reprogramming & my consistency
2024-10-21 14:15:14
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HappyCherokee :
No no no and no
2024-10-06 23:56:19
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Kory with a K :
Lots of prayers!! Faith that they see themselves and have something they really want to open their eyes to see their own pain from childhood. Very well put my man .🙏
2024-10-17 23:18:58
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lotteoptiktokk144 :
This is helping, hé told me time and time again that hé didnt want to change, that hé was too old and was happy enough this way. I didnt believe It But i should have.
2024-10-06 17:36:01
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Erica :
My mom has dismissive avoidant attachment style and I have disorganized fearful avoidant + trauma from living with a mother who lashed out and reflect
2024-10-07 08:47:45
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X :
Is his telling me he’s guna come back and still loves me and won’t talk or sleep with anyone else showing he does wanna change? He says he wants to get better for both of us because he doesn’t wanna
2024-10-06 17:20:54
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Mark Purda :
Can I send this to them? Will they understand?
2024-12-01 15:05:35
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Jeaaanieeee :
But what if, he assure me that he won’t find someone and he’s not chatting with anyone but he’s kinda distant and cold
2024-12-05 08:28:26
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Dagliê :
As a FA, yes!!
2024-11-17 13:04:00
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Marian nakhla :
How to therapy avoidant? How i can help him?
2024-11-25 19:42:18
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charita21 :
hai..my partner block me everywhere after we have a fight..will he ever comeback?
2024-11-19 06:39:49
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colly :
Noooo, how many have changed
2024-10-06 20:24:42
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Roach_Incognito :
cope in relationships with partners that dont seem a right fit for us
2024-10-30 23:46:38
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Roach_Incognito :
healthy relationship. I was definitely not an avoidant then but i had been before that. What i m trying to say is that maybe some of us are not avoidant altogether but being avoidant is the way we
2024-10-30 23:46:01
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Marius Man :
I am am avoidant, but I never knew until now. 😢🥺
2024-11-06 07:09:01
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kioneking :
what about experiencing trauma ? like the death of a loved one?
2025-01-12 01:22:17
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carmenantonellis :
Nm we
2026-04-02 14:25:19
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**City girl** :
I think it depends on the individual, they have to see a good reason to, otherwise they function superficially as great a dad, grandpa, friend ,
2024-11-12 13:00:19
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Sherri :
This gives me hope Coach Ryan.
2024-10-06 21:24:09
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