@onlinemourning: i only tolerated disrespect for this long because i knew it’d give me rly rly insane star worthy character development #thoughts #fypシ゚viral #coping #drawing #art #bestfriend #therapy
why must I always choose to “keep the peace” when that is never reciprocated? molding myself to be more likeable to be more digestible and for what?
2024-10-07 18:09:55
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nina! :
my friends of ten years just cut me off yesterday because i finally spoke up for myself. really needed this on my feed ❤️
2024-10-07 13:43:05
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Far :
I really needed to hear this tqsm
2024-10-11 00:00:12
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grey :
seeing this after having a similar conversation in therapy today. choosing me is uncomfortable, its scary even, but its become more uncomfortable to choose others before me.
2024-10-08 02:17:04
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tofu :
My mind never stops, it's a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions. I feel everything so deeply, both my own joys and sorrows, and those of everyone around me. It's a blessing that allows me to truly connect with others, but it's also a curse that leaves me feeling overwhelmed and exposed. I often feel like an outsider, misunderstood and alone in a world that doesn't quite grasp the intensity of my inner world. And when I try to express those feelings, especially anger, it's like I'm not allowed, like my emotions are somehow invalid. It's a constant struggle to be seen, heard, and understood for who I truly am.
2024-10-10 13:37:08
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fuckingruthless :
"it's okay if it feels lonely" !!!!!!!!!!!
2024-10-09 17:56:27
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tokyo 𒉭 :
i forgot that people tend to yell when their boundaries are being crossed
2024-10-07 14:04:08
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Theo 🪽 :
I really needed this, thank you. I’ve always been someone who neglected myself for others, and lately I’ve tried putting myself first, and since then, I’ve been so angry. So much that it’s consuming
2024-10-07 21:21:12
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Adamn Sandler :
“If they care about me, they will find a way to show me.”
2024-11-03 12:53:05
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death.c0m :
I needed this. I’ve been standing up for myself and calling out the disrespect and I would just keep feeling bad for speaking up about how I feel because it would always “hurt” the other person (1)
2024-10-08 01:34:54
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Dante :
I’ve spent most of my life living this way. understanding but never understood. no more.
2024-10-07 20:57:55
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jo🎶⭐️🎸 :
spoke up for myself and ended up single
2024-10-08 01:27:50
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magicmushroomt :
“if i have no one, i will always have me”
2024-10-09 00:33:39
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user165928592 :
i stayed quiet for the entirety of our relationship until i just couldn’t. i finally said my peace and left, not forever but until change is actually seen.
2024-10-24 04:17:01
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p ★★★★★ :
THIS. they never let me feel like i was allowed to be angry about how they treated me. of course i blamed myself BUT I DESERVE TO BE TREATED BETTER
2024-10-08 10:27:43
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Attchkii :
I spent my whole life thinking the people who were hardened beyond repair were incredible pillars of strength. When, in all reality, it takes more strength to feel it and release it, than it is to not
2024-10-07 16:51:43
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jess :
thank you for this. i always get tiktoks like this that preach kindness but i always had a problem w them bc i knew it wasn't fair to me to be kind despite what i was receiving. THIS is so important!
2024-10-07 18:56:51
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kore📜 :
im so tired of pretending my emotions dont consume me, just because other people dont feel that way too. my best friend, my partner, constantly teels me its okay to feel them, but then when i say how
2024-10-11 18:11:47
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kim :
my ex would have blamed and gaslighted me because I reacted badly 😆
2024-10-11 10:58:04
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sof :
"If I have no one, I will always have me." 2 love urself is 2 be happy
2024-10-08 13:37:41
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hauntedmushroomsa :
I've silenced myself for years to where I can't even hear myself anymore. I've talked myself out of feeling anything "bad" as I didn't want to burden others. I'm grieving myself.
2024-10-08 02:45:53
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⃟ :
i just want everyone to be happy even if it means i’m not
2024-10-07 21:39:49
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Michael Hoffert Jr. :
…I’m really struggling with the “allowed to be angry” thing. Like, how? What does that even mean?
2024-10-08 18:12:07
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Nicole :
These comments are giving me sm comfort in such a hard time right now, sometimes the internet is great at making you feel less alone. 🦋✨
2024-10-09 19:45:36
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𝜗𝜚. gracie ! ☘︎ « 巡音ルカ » :
How do i choose myself
2024-10-09 16:56:16
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