@hazel.ivy.counseling: If you were chosen as the family scapegoat, congratulations! This means that you are likely the polar opposite of your narcissistic parent and are most likely to seek help to heal. You were likely the child who posed the biggest threat to your parent’s ego, have a strong sense of self, and are highly resilient. #dysfunctionalfamilyroles #narcissisticfamilysystem #scapegoatchild #toxicfamilydynamics #therapistsinalabama

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goblyngoods
Goblyn Goods 🇵🇷 | Farm :
So us neurodivergent family members, got it 😭
2024-10-07 17:51:16
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misssphilippine
Missp :
My mom is a scapegoat child. She moved across the world to get away from her family. I’m proud of her
2024-10-07 21:32:46
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allisonsworld1907
Jonseyforyou :
And it's always the neurodivergent one.
2024-10-25 06:46:41
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daphnegerry
Daphne :
I’m neurodivergent and my mother hated me
2024-10-07 18:39:45
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altumaura
. :
I’m that scapegoat and black sheep child.
2024-10-19 22:07:30
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bboddity
Bell :
I watched my older brother be scapegoated my whole life, so when it switched to me, I knew exactly why.
2024-10-07 18:50:08
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user6738826849932792194
User :
The child is strong where the parent in weak well said.
2024-10-07 21:35:54
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evonashayde
Evonashayde :
ah, cuz I was honest
2024-10-07 18:04:39
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deathinvogue
DeathInVogue :
I’m still the scapegoat 😭
2024-10-07 21:28:59
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redwitchlizzy
⛧Red Witch Lizzy⛧ :
I have always had a strong sense of honesty and justice, so my father painted me as some sort of selfish dishonest criminal. My family literally doesn't know who I am..
2024-10-07 17:28:44
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geologistforscale
GeologistForScale 🪨⚒️ :
This was so fucking validating. Thank you 🙏🏻
2024-10-07 18:34:18
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iamvududahl
Vudu Dahl :
As a person who was called the black sheep my entire childhood, this is so validating. This is a big reason why I’ve chosen to distance myself from everyone in my past.
2024-10-07 19:04:11
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devoteeofisis
DarkFeminineRising :
because I spoke out. I always spoke out. might also be nuerospicy but definitely went undiagnosed.
2024-10-07 21:04:36
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crystalsandza
Zuzupetals :
I often imagine how much more fruitful and impactful my life would have been if I wasn’t the scapegoat.
2024-10-07 21:03:10
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rachilll303
rachilll :
I'm the scapegoat in my family and my inlaws family. I call myself an outcast 😁
2024-11-30 19:24:18
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urbancitymother
Urbancitymother :
Yes! I’m the only one pointing out truth.
2024-10-07 18:57:14
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twerkzbentley
♑️ Megan ♑️Thee♑️ Stellium ♑️ :
The validation I’m getting from the video alone just covered like 3 therapy sessions. Grateful 🫶🏾
2024-10-07 18:48:40
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awakenotwoke247
Busy :
This is true, just as the golden child is most like the narcissist
2024-10-20 17:20:48
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ms..michelle3
Ms. Michelle :
1. This explains why my mother decided I was her competition when I was 12yrs old…and the older I got…the worse she got…I realized at 12 that I was more emotionally mature than she was…
2024-10-08 02:18:22
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quiche103z
Quiche :
My mother was the scapegoat from her family but then she had me and my brother and I was abused and scapegoated. She never fully healed the cycle
2024-10-20 19:14:24
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thrivingandhealing
Theycallmemommy :
Oldest. Scapegoated my entire life. No contact now and life has never been this sweet 🥰
2024-10-19 13:36:16
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silke8kaiser
Silke Kaiser :
I was the truth speaker. Drove my mother insane
2024-12-04 19:51:42
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kikkib4
Kikki Boinski :
Is it true once you are the scapegoat, you remain that in life ? I’m over 50. So tired.
2024-10-13 20:22:46
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alexandrianist
Alexandrianist :
I left my toxic family system 3 months ago. The siblings had started treated me similar and leaving me out of their sibling group. I saw a cycle forming again led by the golden child so I left it.
2024-10-08 16:58:06
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missammyy_
Amy T :
A badge of honour. Doesn't feel like it when you're in it. 💔
2024-10-20 01:21:42
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