@docamen: Replying to @Isle_esme_ Raising mentally strong & competent kids part 2 #parenting

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jendiamond6
Jenny from the island :
There’s a balance.. my hyper independence also comes from the childhood trauma of not being able to rely on anyone.
2024-10-09 01:33:43
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the.journey37
The journey :
my parents did that, I am great at solving problems but feel like a weak person for asking help.
2024-10-08 09:00:00
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happinessmramba
Happiness Mramba :
thanks
2024-11-09 06:31:36
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rusheenarodney
Rusheena :
And if you want your husband to really step up more in leadship this is the same principle. 💕
2024-10-08 15:57:35
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maybe_bree
✨🦋✨ :
facts. my dad was always like "IDK FIGURE IT OUT!" now as an adult i do nothing but stress tf out trying to figure it out. 🙂🙂🙂🙂
2024-10-08 12:50:26
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finnfinn000
finnfinn000 :
Problem solvers are the absolute best people to work with, be around, have around in just about every situation. Adult problem solvers were once kids allowed to solve problems.
2024-10-08 06:08:02
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arsmith89
Amanda Alford :
This is so difficult for me. I want to take care of everything for my babies….
2024-10-08 18:08:06
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thokozanimthethw
Thokozani Mthethwa :
So true, I believe in teaching children independence at an early age and the only way to do that is to allow them to solve their own problems.
2024-10-08 10:05:46
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friscogrl1974
HH74 :
Yes, 💯 correct 👏. It does work. try not to be judgemental. 😏
2024-10-22 03:25:18
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mawulimelo1
Mawuli Howard :
what are the downsides to leaving them to solve their problems over a prolonged period especially problems beyond their comprehension?
2024-10-08 10:34:12
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msminniemyers
Minnie Myers :
This is facts! I raised my oldest daughter like that, and she’s so clueless sometimes. My youngest daughter is 8 and she basically can solve adult problems on all levels bc I changed my parenting.
2024-10-08 23:20:15
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user9313210578217
Porsche panamera :
My 2 years old son is so fragile, he cries even when he is alone
2024-10-08 14:02:39
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soft_fem_life
Soft Fem Life :
Idk I didn't have much guidance and I learned a lot about takimg care of myself but my self esteem isn't high maybe bc I didn't get any reassurance in my decisions. Not very confident unfortunately
2024-10-08 14:39:50
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spaceboy94
Jay :
Explains why I’m Einstein
2024-10-09 20:34:47
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mellymellz_0
MellyMelz☺️ :
You can still help and teach them theres nothing rong there bcoz once when old enough they will still be able to do things on their own
2024-10-12 14:22:06
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mcusi627
Mcusi :
I like solving problems but I crash down when I cabt find solutions cos I'm too dependant on myself
2024-10-08 20:43:59
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bz.magic
DMago :
my son has gotten to the point where he believes most of the education he's getting is useless and he's underperforming because of it. how do I remedy this 🤔
2024-10-10 05:05:26
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monsi.simona
monsi.simona :
I can’t agree with this. My parents left me to do it everything by myself. Never helped me for anything even advised me to do anything, just my mum always putting her opinion over mine and she thought
2024-10-10 20:39:10
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mommianna2365
mommianna2365 :
I was forced to solve my own problems and never really had any help so I’m hyper independent which now that I have kids my trauma response is let me help so they don’t feel how I felt growing up.. 😟
2024-10-08 14:40:12
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ambers_peace82
Amber :
Oh my mom did that and didn’t help me with anything. I now have CPTSD, severe anxiety and depression but can solve my own problems. Yeah me 😂
2024-10-11 20:14:10
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angelisarivera0
Angelisa Rivera :
I tell my son keep trying I will help sometimes
2024-10-08 13:44:34
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laylandstitch
Laylandstitch :
My son is 3yrs old and if I see him struggling with a problem or diff , I always just give him encouragement that he can figure it out on his own. Obviously it’s a challenge that a he is capable
2024-10-08 11:52:19
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bond.jackie.bond
Jackie Bond :
Playing tennis is great for elevating problem solving!
2024-10-08 07:28:53
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lifeofkimi2
LifeofKimi :
This needs to be a world announcement 📣
2024-10-08 18:29:13
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