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👉One big mistake people make is they think that being a good person means giving in to other person’s demands, always being the one to say, “I don’t mind” and flexing this way and that to accommodate them. But what starts as an intention to be kind, can easily slip into a habit of appeasement. Doing that may help to keep the peace in the moment, but leads to deep resentment and bitterness in the long term. So how is appeasement different from simply being kind? And how can you spot it? 1. While kindness is motivated by genuine care, appeasement can be driven by fear, the need for approval or the avoidance of conflict. 2. Anyone can choose to express kindness to another person without compromising on their own needs or wellbeing. In fact, showing kindness has benefits for both them and you. But appeasement often feels less like a choice, and more of an escape from confrontation or conflict. And it nearly always requires some form of self-betrayal. 3. A habit of kindness contributes positively to your wellbeing and your relationship. Appeasement sets a precedent for what they will come to expect of you that builds resentment and bitterness and often the destruction of the relationship itself. Many of us have been taught to believe that being a good partner, friend or family member is someone who drifts in any direction others want us to go. That is not true. Being a decent person and being an assertive person are not opposite ends of a spectrum. In fact, one demands the other. The good news is that assertiveness is not something you are born with. Those skills are learnable at any age. This is the first video I have made on this particular subject, so if you’d like to know more, let me know in the comments.

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