@thereal_eloisegagnon: When you understand this about people, you’ll save yourself so much relationship heartache, frustration and resentment. Knowing when people want to be heard and when they want to be “saved” is a crucial distinction to make. Give advice to someone who didn’t ask for it and you’ll not only hurt your credibility but you’ll damage the trust of the relationship. Stand back quiet when someone is raising their hand, asking for help, asking to be guided, and you’ll lose you’re authority. It may seem like a simple rule yet people ignore it all the time. In personal and professional relationships. Don’t be the hero of someone else’s story when they don’t want you to. Be the hero when they ask you to! #peoplemanagement #relationships #relationshipadvice #softskills #conversation #fy #fyp #toxic PS I know I have a white line on my forehead. I tried a new face cream for my sensitive skin and it felt like rubbing in concrete. I did a poor job at it and didn’t notice. No need to comment on it 😅

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willowwhite8
𝓕𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼 :
wow.. thanks! I never understood when people gets upset when I try to advice them. I see it the difference now.
2024-10-14 22:55:04
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sandismith800
sandismith800 :
Absolutely!
2024-10-08 23:14:10
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thewongeva
The Wong Eva :
I felt disempowered when I just wanted a bit of validation, but ended up with advice or coaching .
2024-10-18 02:22:51
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_s_ahmed_
S Ahmed785 :
The angle “she wanted to be the hero of her story” is so critical. Just wondering what does it mean if that’s the only theme of the conversation on a regular basis..
2024-10-17 08:01:18
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miss_nilda
Miss_Nilda :
Yes! I noticed this! She did not asked to be coached.
2024-10-09 04:15:54
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ladysailor :
That is such great advice and a tremendous distinction in understanding when someone is ready for help versus just needs to be heard.
2024-10-22 22:32:01
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travel Gang :
💯
2024-10-14 23:47:42
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💯💯💯💯
2024-10-13 13:58:48
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Dominique :
🥰🥰🥰
2024-10-09 14:30:26
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cait_bella
Bella :
I think ur audience forgot who they were following when they asked y u didn’t coach her 🤣 I appreciated that u said it would b unsolicited advice.
2024-10-08 20:35:01
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@thereal_eloisegagnon do you coach DOD/service members?
2024-10-14 12:02:15
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2024-10-10 15:43:01
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tiaralove111
Tiara :
Exactly. Someone I know always gave me unsolicited advice when all I wanted to do was tell a story of how something happened. Their advice was a moot point. You got it.
2024-10-11 04:26:01
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