@therapistinrecovery: I know this seems crazy but focusing on yourself first or AT LEAST in equal measure to others allows the universe (or your higher power) to do its thing and work for everyones greater good #peoplepleaser #nomoremrniceguy #niceguysfinishlast #overfunctioning #codependencyrecovery #codependency #codependentnomore #selflove #SelfCare #boundarysetting #boundaries101 #WeDoRecover #conflictavoidance #advocateforyourself #assertiveness