PhoenixUntaped
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hauntedhartland :
the pathology is different, so the signs are different, and both are dangerous. you’re extremely brave and the work you’re doing is important- thank you. my perpetrator’s pathology was similar to ex
2024-10-17 05:41:02
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Erin :
In the time that you didn’t know who it was, did you discuss your concerns with your husband? Do you think it’s best not to if you’re not sure or do you think it’s good to gauge how they react?
2024-10-16 02:19:41
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Nessa :
Something has happened in my family and I don’t know know how to go about helping my family member as it happened 20 years ago but has just come out. The parents of the kids have not even confronted
2024-10-16 09:24:51
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reckless crybaby :
I think this is how my mom "missed" all the signs. watching your videos have been really making me see things from my mom's point of view. I am still mad, but I have more to think about.
2024-11-21 06:10:02
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ANGEL🍉 :
My mother was extremely vigilant with who I was alone with, as much as she could control, but all it took was a look away and a locked door. We need to clearly define these things for the benefit of -
2024-11-27 06:46:06
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Tryyourmotherorjesusjustnotme :
They are emotionally responding. You have gone through the emotions and you understand it logically. With time they will get there too. These understanding are vital to learning how to deal with this.
2024-10-15 16:28:23
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💜•BrandY•💜 :
Omg SAME!! Infact when my daughter disclosed and I asked who taught her “that” she told me her dad and I said wait WHAT!? I expect to hear “gpa” his dad.
2024-10-15 14:39:18
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Robin Muniz :
You've done a great service to lots of people by having the courage to speak about this from first hand experiences. You've been crystal clear and extremely right - I'm sorry you had to go thru this
2024-10-18 07:46:38
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Azreilli🍒 :
I agree. My dad was over looked and also was not into children whatsoever but still did exactly as you described what happened to ur daughter. It’s important to understand the difference
2024-10-28 16:30:45
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🍥✨ Lia Mochii 🌸🦴 :
I don't think it's a matter of "playing semantics" but a matter of making people able to understand nuance and name what they see, wich is SO important
2024-10-18 09:55:31
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Tara :
I appreciate the distinction, because similarly to "grape", people think it's a seggual thing, but it's more commonly about control. Like in power dynamics of varying relationships.
2024-10-09 23:04:19
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Ada :
Right like some are pedos and some are men with power problems and their victims could be anybody like children or animals or partners or employees and it’s not driven by “lust” but by power
2024-11-01 14:09:41
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nkyheart :
Findings from Australia's royal comission into child sex abuse (2019), proved perpetrators of sexual abuse are predominantly not paedophiles. True! Important to undersand so we can detect it more.
2024-10-16 04:05:40
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Maja :
I was married to one for 12 years, they are deceiving
2024-11-18 15:51:08
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braydenmaerussell :
I completely understood the first video and commend your bravery in speaking out. If anything it’s more validating to victims that abusers often appear normal and good to other people.
2024-10-19 17:20:16
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Hailey Ross :
Did “grandpa” with pedo qualities possibly also abuse bio dad? Abusers were often abused. Not a justification AT ALL, just a possible correlation
2024-12-01 08:51:15
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Nisha Rhymes With Trisha :
I think people struggle with this because it forces the consideration that child mol3st3rs are a wider population of people than they want to accept. But without acknowledgement there cannot be change
2024-10-09 02:10:32
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quarentart :
It’s like how food can hurt you bc of food poisoning or because of an allergy. They’re both dangerous. But the way you protect yourself from them is different, and understanding that keeps you safe.
2024-10-09 00:04:52
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boopybec :
thank you for your kind response, I do understand what you're saying, I just think u need to create a bit more wiggle room in Ur terminology for survivors and advocates
2024-10-09 02:15:34
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Bananas :
This makes so much sense honestly. Thank you for taking the time to explain. Similar to adult/adult SA. The guilty party could be motivated by their attrraction to the victim, but more often than not
2024-10-09 00:29:06
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Sara Leia :
Pedophelia is a fetishitic obsession with children. A Child molester, like a common rapist, is looking for an opportunity to use their power to get sexual gratification from someone who is vulnerable.
2024-10-15 22:46:32
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sofso15 :
My question is it doesn't matter , pedos like kids ( gross) and child molester ( hurts kids) but both can have corn of kids, but both of them are mentally ill , and should be behind bars.
2024-10-14 20:46:24
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Deni Mar :
People have their own subjective definitions for words and then get angry when other use their actual objective meanings. Your video was very important bc tho I know aggression and attraction don't 1/
2024-10-09 11:43:10
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grit&grace78 :
Fact is most people who choose to molest children are not pedofiles. They are abusers who wish to overpower, control, and dominate another person.
2024-10-10 01:33:07
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