@themaggienick: “I love you on your laziest day” 🥹🤯 I mean…damn 💛 But that is EXACTLYYY the way you DESERVE to love yourself 💛 Healing our Inner Child who believes they must achieve + accomplish in order to be worthy of + deserving of love is about putting our Perspectacles on + calling bs on this 💛 Actively loving ourselves as we honor our capacity + bandwidth + freaking rest because we need to 💛 Breaking the cycle of PUNISHING ourselves for “being lazy” by withdrawing + withholding our own love, attention + care from ourselves. And assuming others will too 💛 I’m telling you — NOTHINGGGG feels quite as good as loving the sh!t out of myself (Today Me AND Little Me!) WITHOUT A SINGLE CONDITION 💛 And when it feels hard/impossible to love myself through something — I get curious about that hmm 🤔 I use IFS + I ask that Part of me why it feels so hard to love myself + there’s always a story about how the most lovable version of me in childhood didn’t do those things bc it made others mad and/or disappointed. That Part of me is alwaysss trying to protect me + keep me safe. And watching Today Me love myself through it feels shocking in the BEST kind of way 🥰 Do you know this struggle with feeling like you must earn love by achieving + accomplishing? I hope this helped. Try this + let me know how it goes! Follow me for more “Good” Kid Rehab for your Inner Child AND your kids 💛 #creatorsearchinsights #ifs #internalfamilysystems #childhoodtrauma #innerchildhealing #relationaltrauma #relationalshametrauma #relationaltraumarecovery #maggiewithperspectacles #goodkids #goodkidrehab #goodkidrecovery #recoveringgoodkid #camplovable

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