@changedbygrief: I acknowledge that loss. Parents have a very strong opinion about gender, disappointment, videos, and reactions. I think it’s very human and very fair to judge, but to shame is not. #lossmom #pregnanttiktok #pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #genderreveal #genderdisappointment
I think all reactions are valid. I just have a problem when people are posting in on the Internet for hundreds to see, possibly even their children in the future.
2024-10-09 17:37:17
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Colleen O'Connor :
I lost my daughter at 22w due to PPROM. I’m pregnant again and when I found out it’s a boy I took it pretty hard. I had imagined my entire future with my daughter, and it was hard to reimagine
2024-10-09 18:13:23
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ari life after tfmr stillbirth :
as a tfmr stillbirth mum I went team green with my rainbow baby because I knew I would be disappointed if my rainbow wasn't also a girl cus I lost my daughter that i dreamed about
2024-10-10 06:49:15
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🌷 Sophia 🌷 TFMR+Girl Mom 🌷 :
My tfmr child was a girl, and I was so happy to have her, and I felt robbed of a daughter & I know for a fact in a sub pregnancy I’d be devastated if I didn’t get the chance to have a daughter. I may be one and done! So it means a lot
2024-10-09 17:59:58
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Dr. J :
Yessss! As a perinatal psychologist who sees lots of loss moms 💯💯💯 on this.
2024-10-13 18:09:26
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ccbhappydays :
TFMR my little girl. Recently found out my next baby is a boy and I am beyond thrilled!! Part of me wanted a boy and I didn’t feel guilty 💙 we we are human
2024-10-09 18:39:14
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Katie Ross :
@Brielle cherie 💙💙💙
2024-10-09 19:02:52
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SendCheese :
Agreed! As a loss parent, just b/c you had a loss, doesn’t mean you can’t have complicated feelings about a future pregnancy! Yes, I want a healthy baby 1st, but feelings about gender can also exist.
2024-10-09 17:34:07
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Kyleigh Sage :
I’ve decided I only want 1 kid. There’s reasons I’d love a girl and reasons I’d love a boy so I think I’ll end up being a little disappointed either way because I’ll never have the opposite experience. Like that feels reasonable??
2024-10-09 17:41:21
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Sarah :
YES. I had minimal gender disappointment. My first baby (TFMR) was a boy. This time, I was so hoping for a girl, but it’s another boy. Being that this is probably my last, I do feel robbed.
2024-10-09 20:22:21
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Amanda M :
so scared of this after lossing my only boy at 17 weeks after 3 girls. Decided to try again and scared I won't get my boy.
2024-10-09 18:47:54
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