A big one for me: ALWAYS feeling like I need to be the one to listen & respond to a person in a group, when no one else hears them... I just want ppl to feel seen & heard, but it can be exhausting 😩
2024-10-10 23:07:06
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Menna :
I think what you’re saying is to be a nice person but with boundaries
2024-10-11 06:44:07
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Bri :
What’s a way to get comfy voicing our discomfort? Ways to practice?
2024-10-10 19:26:32
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notthatgirl2002 :
being very friendly and nice makes people disrespectful to you👌
2024-10-14 09:47:05
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Avi, RMT :
this neighbor told my aunt that i don't smile and greeted her, my aunt scolded me about it. i told her she can't force someone to do those things and i'm not nice most of the time
2024-10-15 09:37:32
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francesn22 :
Can you give some examples of how to be tactful while being less nice?
2024-10-10 19:15:30
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cinemasammy :
I am learning this especially in such a stressful job like consulting. Ironically the more firm I am the better things go. It’s a tough cycle to kill, because I am so burned out on being nice.
2024-10-11 17:20:07
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Laura 🤷♀️ :
Kev!you left no crumbs with this 👏🫶
2024-10-10 19:03:45
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Adriannnnnnnnnn :
Im a 32 year old male and Filipino and trying to recover from being the typical people pleaser. Its lonely cause im being stingy now with the energy i give people. Just need to push through
2024-10-10 19:56:44
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Belinda🍉🇨🇩 🇸🇩 :
I'm not nice, I'm kind.
2024-10-10 23:06:06
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BabySmalls :
I’m learning this too right now.
2024-10-12 11:16:04
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Veron Václaviaková :
Totally agree
2024-10-13 12:57:29
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theruthrachel :
So draining
2024-10-11 14:14:06
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Homedepotkeurig :
Keep sharing more!
2024-10-11 23:34:29
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rreatil3 :
Real
2024-10-16 20:02:11
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Malcolm :
Thanks for the reminder
2024-11-25 09:13:05
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oliverislost :
never nice always kind but I get it
2024-10-10 20:29:56
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levovegan :
What do you mean unless they pay your bills lol
2024-10-28 03:20:03
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Anachech_ :
How do u do it tho 😅
2024-10-11 02:24:48
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erennn :
so glad that i found your page loll truly needed this😂
2024-10-11 05:05:13
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tiktokuser123443210 :
Piano update
2024-10-14 20:01:10
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Osato___ :
Thank you I needed this
2024-10-22 13:22:58
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@sifi_m :
Gosh I hated that "smile" conversation as a child ... I still get that because my resting face is not a smile🙄🙄.. I will not smile if it's not genuine.. I don't have to conform
2024-10-12 07:06:59
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