@payalforstyle: New routines around here. Knowing and noticing what needs to be done, then doing it without anyone needing to “nag” or remind 👀 lunch boxes and water bottles for now #startsmall #dustysons #dustydaughter #funny #relatable #dustoff #raisingyoungmen #raisingsons #raisingboys #momofboys #momofsons Dusty son
Invisible load is so hard to manage without them finally SEEING it.
2024-10-11 03:24:08
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Lauren Barkham :
I wish my partner’s mum did this!
2024-10-12 13:17:23
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tiffanylb07 :
If more boy mom's did this we wouldn't have to teach grown men 👏🏼👏🏼
2024-10-11 13:08:47
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carimehometonight :
This is the boy mom energy we love to see. You dropped this 👑
2024-10-11 02:35:08
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Kir.Andy :
Yes! I have three sons. Training them to “look around the house, find something that needs to be done, and do it!”
2024-10-11 02:52:11
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MayaMuffin :
Can you do another video on how to talk to your son about the invisible load?
2024-10-11 02:12:10
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CK.GRUMPY :
chores aren't a load. they are acts of service we out if love for of people in our families. do each one with gratitude for our home, and our loved ones.
2024-10-11 13:49:47
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kykyseals :
This is brilliant. 👏✨
2024-10-11 16:21:30
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Taylor Bacon :
Can you teach my husband
2024-10-11 03:36:25
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Devoe :
I have explained that telling me what he wants to eat is taking part of that invisible load. He’s 7.5 & he’s working on all of this.
2024-10-11 11:30:13
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Maria :
Yes and getting mad at your kids for not noticing / doing it when you’ve done it their whole lives isn’t their fault, it’s your job to instill it in them without resentment / harsh reprimanding
2024-10-11 17:30:42
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LaurenMoon :
His future wife will love you.
2024-10-11 14:18:47
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user1229256280105 :
Good job. Also teach him it’s not “helping” but a shared responsibility 😊
2024-10-11 09:15:53
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Alina :
Can a husband also have an invisible load that we are unaware of? Isn' t it better to just communicate rather than expect our spouse to guess our mind?
2024-10-11 14:44:57
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Suzie Grime :
That's gonna be a great, attentive human one day.
2024-10-11 15:09:58
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Erin :
One time my dad taught me that anytime he’s getting up to go to a room, he looks around to see what’s not in place and takes it. Simple but if everyone does it, huge help!
2024-10-11 14:36:23
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LilacsAndLavender :
My entire family has ADHD (including me) and I can’t not successfully teach this to anyone. Including my husband. 🥺
2024-10-11 12:43:51
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I_dont_know_my_name✨ :
My mom sent this to me, I have ADHD and autism traits, I don’t know how to learn this. Any advice?
2024-10-12 17:40:43
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🦇queendead🦇 :
Thisssss!!!! It’s so important. Hard to teach but worth it
2024-10-11 03:10:09
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Inna Lukyanov :
good job mama ✨
2024-10-11 01:58:22
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Ashmorpheus :
Love this. I told my husband that a BIG goal for me as a mother is to prepare them for their future partners one day. This is a BIG one! Great job mom.
2024-10-11 14:41:43
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Ashley :
can you tell me like how you explained this to him and which things he can help do? i'm trying to teach my son this. like putting his dishes in the dishwasher and his clothes in the hamper type stuff
2024-10-11 20:45:09
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inperfectbalance :
How about your partner do you feel like he does that?
2024-10-11 11:31:23
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