Every now and then I’ll ask someone for help and I’m immediately reminded why I never do that
2024-10-11 11:39:24
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Maggie🇨🇦🍁🇨🇦 :
It’s lonely but it’s less painful.
2024-10-12 03:03:27
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Bitchin&Boozin :
Hi! Fellow Podcast host! Love your content! The way to stop hyper independence is curing the inner child/young adult that was let down consistently. Once she is taken care of and safe, you will attract the right people. The safe people that will nurture, give and lift you up vs. let you down. Check out Bitchin & Boozin!
2025-08-18 23:53:41
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Zel🇦🇺 Gen ❌ :
and when you put your guard down they prove why you are overly independent
2024-10-11 21:42:52
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Darlene Edens :
This is me….100 percent. Sometimes it’s exhausting
2024-10-11 11:20:19
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R.S.R.S. :
💯. hyperindependence is a trauma response from nobody being there. you carry it with you. and then you start the struggle of trying to unlearn it.
2024-10-12 16:20:12
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Lolita Demir :
But how do you reverse the hyper independence ☹️
2024-10-12 08:19:10
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Apple User675575415🇨🇦 :
Both my parents separately told me they hate my hyper independence yet they created it in the first place.
2024-10-12 00:39:36
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AgnieszkaAgnieszka :
To o mnie😞
2024-10-12 20:23:56
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Sandra 🇨🇦 :
I pay all my bills, I have my two cats, I have my own place and my own car. The pure amount of peace is unmatched!
2024-10-12 03:46:39
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David James :
Went through chemotherapy without telling my family because of this. Everyone thinks I’m ridiculously strong. But it’s actually this.
2024-10-11 17:35:26
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Sara Strange :
I don't see a problem with this, I'd rather be independant thsn co-dependant
2024-10-11 23:17:25
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Cynthia🇨🇦 :
She says that like it’s a bad thing
2024-10-12 00:26:33
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Ladylucy190 :
Damn, I’m being called out at 7 AM on a Saturday
2024-10-12 11:10:13
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Lori A Olson Volden :
it works tho..... if I need help, I'd rather pay someone to do the job then ask for help.
2024-10-11 12:09:02
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Kris McLallen :
I see no problem with this.
2024-10-11 11:22:47
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Dirtkang :
how do we show someone that's built this defense mechanism that they are safe with you?
2024-10-11 05:08:17
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Amybluffton :
At my mid 60’s after a lifetime of people it boils down to trust and peace. I trust only myself and found peace
2024-10-11 11:11:09
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Candy 🇦🇺 🦘 :
Yep… sick of empty promises, lies, betrayal etc. I always do best when I don’t rely on anybody but myself.
2024-10-12 02:06:59
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Amanda :
but is it such a bad thing being hyper independent lol
2024-10-12 21:13:31
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William Smith :
Yeah! And it works! If your expectations of others is low enough, no one will ever disappoint you.
2024-10-12 00:15:55
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maymast :
silently reposting.
2024-10-17 02:03:14
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Des. Renee ❤️ :
This me unfortunately 🤦🏾♀️
2024-10-11 05:52:36
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Brianna :
Shhhh too loud lol
2024-10-11 11:36:57
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Jade Jadore :
Facts 💯 definitely me. #notsorry
2024-10-11 12:40:55
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