@keith.crossley1: Abandonment issues often create a cycle of needing to be rescued, only to push love away once it’s given. It’s a painful loop—seeking reassurance, but feeling vulnerable when it arrives. No amount of rescuing will be enough until the root fear of abandonment is healed. To break free, it’s not about more reassurance; it’s about confronting and healing the original wound. #healing #abandonmentissues #selfawareness
It’s frustrating when you’re aware of the issue but can’t stop yourself 😭
2024-10-13 13:53:10
1394
ellee744 :
something that helped me was I stopped abandoning myself
2024-10-12 10:51:18
1195
Alexjandro Ceron :
Shhhh not too much now
2024-10-13 16:34:38
2471
Kristen :
Try EMDR with a knowledgeable therapist. Try not to have expectations each session and just allow whatever to come up to come up. After 20 yrs of other therapies, this is working for me after 6 months
2024-10-12 11:38:48
108
Tiffany :
Yes and no. There’s something to be said about another persons consistency in your life that helps. 🖤
2024-10-12 14:36:56
319
Kiersten :
We push everyone away and we rather leave than be left 🫠 slightest trigger we run.
2024-10-12 21:49:12
344
drrjc :
So how do I heals that wound??
2024-10-12 00:30:18
147
єℓιzαвєтннн :
It never heals we just begin to reassure ourselves and stay single.
2024-10-13 01:44:11
240
Silvia Chrisla :
Everyone tells us what the problem is but no one actually tells us how to heal? I’ve been trying to heal so bad and no one has the key. I do but I need guidance to find that key
2024-10-12 07:53:38
125
ChiDee :
being rescued is like a dopamine hit
2024-10-14 04:24:49
232
hhaanniikkeehhss :
Abandonment issues here 🙋🏻♀️i dont do any of this but I “leave them before they leave me” or i constantly live in “they could out that door tmrw & you wont care at all” mode.
2024-10-14 03:32:54
456
✨ 𝔈𝔪𝔭𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰✨ :
Avoidant attachment
2024-10-12 19:41:57
172
hanvans :
Story of my life. Started when I was 12 and mom moved out of state. Learned that if mom isn’t dependable, nobody is.
2024-10-12 17:18:59
42
SailorBeast :
Ok so how do we fix it?
2024-10-12 05:26:00
13
Sam Majola :
😭😭 I dont even wanna be rescued anymore, i wanna be left alone.
2024-10-14 09:24:24
104
missfritz :
how do you heal the original wound!!!
2024-10-13 03:05:21
4
Megan Winstead :
it's not solely about abandonment by others it's about abandonment of self and not understanding or being able to execute interdependence in relationship. fear loss of other and loss of self.
2024-10-12 14:35:51
19
taiga9393 :
my partner allowed me to run away and have all the tantrums I wanted he just never run after me and always accepted me with compassion gave me warmth and didn’t judge my actions magically I healed 😳
2024-10-14 06:53:35
53
Fg💕 :
HAHAHAHAHA ACTUALLY NO✨ Love doesn't scare me, abandonment scared me, this guy is seeing it all wrong and everyone just agrees 😭😭😭
2024-10-14 11:31:00
5
Mel🐰🧿 :
how do you get abandonment trauma from people pleasing? i was neglected and intentionally left places, am i just not understanding what abandonment trauma means??
2024-10-14 06:31:36
2
Garrielle Sinclair🎀 :
okay so i’m staying single
2024-10-14 04:03:30
40
To see more videos from user @keith.crossley1, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.