I taught my son we don’t have secrets, only surprises. And if someone tells you it’s a secret to tell mom immediately. It prevented an almost life changing event for him.
2024-10-13 15:32:33
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Megan :
My kids pediatrician explains to them only mommy, daddy and doctors are allowed to check private areas but mommy, daddy and doctors also all need to ask permission. I’ve stuck with that ever since
2024-10-14 15:05:06
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Kathryn :
It’s important to call body parts what they are and in the event that something happens and they use the right words for litigation should it come to that.
2025-04-09 13:51:36
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KelseySurrogating :
Our pediatrician was amazing about this. Before he did his exam on my kids he talked shortly about private areas and he was only checking while a safe adult was with them. 🎉
2024-10-13 13:30:25
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DonnaLynn :
As a victim of SA from a step parent, I feel like I went overboard talking about it with my kids, to the point it was over their head at times … 🤦🏻♀️This is awesome. ❤️
2024-10-14 02:14:33
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Elisa Johnson :
This starts by not forcing your child to hug someone they don’t want to! Regardless of if their family or not if your child doesn’t want a hug then they don’t have to hug.
2025-03-19 20:37:45
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Minx Xylesia Leal :
I have been using anatomically correct words for my children since they started talking. They're aware and know never to let anyone who isn't a trusted person (mom, dad, pediatrician) examine them.
2024-10-13 23:21:50
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brandyserman1388 :
This made me cry. It hurts so much knowing the babies of this world are so unsafe 😭
2024-10-15 11:18:13
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Tiff 💜 :
I'm all for these books but do we really have to start the video that way??
2025-04-08 02:59:47
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Leslie_bakes :
Hey let’s starting calling them the parts that they are! Penis and vagina so kids know!!!
2024-10-14 17:14:44
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KaileyTucker90 :
We did “good touching” and “bad touching”. Periodically I’ll ask for an example of each, to make sure they understand.
2024-10-13 23:17:17
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shhaayy.nicole :
It’s also SUPER important to teach children the proper names of their anatomy. Do not tell them it’s their “cookie” it is a vagina!! It is not a “wee wee” it is a penis!!
2024-10-14 15:47:57
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shy :
omg tiktok. today my kid showed a story she made it was inappropriately shaped but she didn't know why it was inappropriate I tried to explain to the teachers but I feel like they just judged. help
2025-03-14 18:16:54
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Maria Torresss :
so the other day I was changing my daughter she's 1 and my son came in him being 4 just turned 2days ago but um he watched me take her diaper off got up threw it away and got another when I turned he
2024-12-12 19:09:51
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MK Sanchez :
My niece asked me to keep a secret from my sister and I told her I can’t promise to do that, secrets from parents don’t keep kids safe and I care about her safety more than her being happy with me
2025-02-13 17:35:35
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laurenlou2019 :
I’ve always taught my kids the real names of body parts too!
2025-02-17 10:25:53
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That tattooed chick :
Yep. My ex and I are both nurses. I have always used appropriate terminology. He does not not. It’s insane.
2024-10-13 01:19:31
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Ahna Dance :
I think something also to point out is making sure as a parent having your kid have the right gender doctor from the Geto is very important.
2025-02-10 15:23:50
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angelbabyhunter :
I haven't talked to my son about this yet because he's 3, however I still teach and practice consent. what I mean is even when him and I are playing if he says stop I stop. and tell him "stop means
2025-02-19 01:24:35
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Samie Rose :
As a person who lived with this. I talk to them about secrets and how they don’t have to keep any. Secrets are lies and you tell someone that makes you feel safe. Those are yours and if you ever feel
2025-02-18 15:42:04
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Emily Crosby :
At what age do you think these books are appropriate? I have a 7 month old
2024-11-05 22:35:22
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Mckenna Johnson :
We use proper autonomy words and explain it’s their private areas or even body if you don’t wanna hug or touch no is a complete sentence. With my kids I also say mom or dad will only check your
2025-03-13 18:35:35
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c h e l s 🌿 :
Do you have a recommendation on what age should we start talking with them about it?
2024-11-07 23:10:25
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