oh so this is why i hate being perceived and my social anxiety is so irrational
2024-10-14 18:53:50
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Belle ベル :
this is meeeeeee omg 😭 my mother and stepfather judge EVERYONE SO MUCH but the worse is about me and my siblings. my mum then bonds with me over these things. then when I get upset with something judgemental someone has said I get told I'm too sensitive and that "people just say stuff to fill the air, don't pay too much attention" 😭
2024-10-15 10:03:09
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ana_krn :
so not everyone is judging? are you sure? 😭 can people that don't judge comment here?
2024-10-14 18:55:01
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Para Doxxx :
stop it now I'm crying 😭 I have agoraphobia & THIS is a big part of it, ugh
2024-10-14 20:17:04
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OrchidsBudget :
My mum mentions someone's appearance in every story even when it has zero to do with what she's telling me. It's toxic.
2024-10-14 19:01:33
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GIGI :
I didn’t know you knew my mother 😂
2024-10-14 18:27:01
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fog :
how do i send this to my mom without sending it to her
2024-10-14 19:11:17
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Nar :
my dad is like this so I started talking positively about others around him and he just...doesn't know how to hold the conversation. it's so strange to watch.
2024-10-14 18:31:12
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3 Bees 🐝 :
my gosh. this is my mom. it has been so hard to break the cycle. i have to constantly remjnd myself not to judge others
2024-10-14 18:45:15
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missMarvel :
wait everyone ISN'T like this
2024-10-14 18:29:30
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gotta.have.faithh :
& then you realize if they’re saying those things about other people, they’re definitely saying judgmental things about you 😳
2024-10-14 18:42:32
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C💙 :
Still trying to undo this from hearing negative judgmental talk my entire life.
2024-10-14 18:24:18
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goal0x :
but if i send this to my family ill be met with “SO I WAS A BAD PARENT?!?!!!”
2024-10-15 11:25:34
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utta butter :
Oh so this is why I always think everyone’s talking about me! I learned they were…
2024-10-14 18:19:00
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Baddiej9 :
I’m overthinker in everything i do. And obsessed with how I’m perceived
2024-10-14 18:31:12
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Amber | NC Photographer 📸 :
I grew up like this and now I'm trying to unlearn all how I was raised.
2024-10-14 20:40:54
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juliaisanenglishmajor :
It also can make judgmental kids who start to do this to other people.
2024-10-14 19:47:39
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Schwingbattabatta :
Omg I thought it was my fault, that I was too sensitive. My parents couldn’t talk about anyone without mentioning weight, hairline, moles, any perceived imperfection. I don’t want to be perceived!
2024-10-14 19:46:45
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AV 🦋 :
and it means I can't truly believe any good thing about me that my parent says because they are so disingenuous with everyone else. no contact became the answer because so little is genuine
2024-10-14 18:31:42
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Dreamless :
I've started calling my mum out for her comments, like why are you even thinking about/paying attention to this random person at the next table over? why is their appearance so important to you? 🙄
2024-10-15 06:43:28
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Gena Gika :
I would like to tag the whole Balkan region, thank you
2024-10-14 19:45:53
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andrea 🪬 | escritora :
Or worse you believe your mum thinks every negative thing about you but won’t say it TO YOUR FACE
2024-10-15 06:43:02
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rachel🥀🦇 :
FYP said: your entire life be like:
2024-10-14 18:47:16
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Silentsideeye•.- :
Whew. Then I stay distant because the only way they have normal conversations. Is talking bad about everything. I don’t want negativity all the time.
2024-10-14 19:46:56
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