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Coach Jenni :
They don’t like talking to me. My birth mother was 14. I’m happy to share with them that I WISH she felt she could have chosen what was best for HER. 💃
2024-10-17 07:15:00
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Jesus Freakin Congress :
I wish they would’ve…
2024-10-17 16:35:33
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scouser1962 :
I’m convinced that some men really really lack critical thinking
2024-10-17 19:32:59
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Ivy Mae :
I always say I wish she had.
2024-10-17 12:36:28
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Kelly :
Jokes on him, my dad hates kids and still won’t say he loves me to this day. I’m 37. Raised to believe I am a burden and that 100% shows by the partners I’ve chosen. Lifelong battle against trauma.
2024-10-17 16:54:06
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Azia 🧸🇵🇸 :
i mean my parents REALLY REALLY wanted me. but if they didn’t, i wouldn’t care… CUZ I WOULDNT EXIST!!! and they would be soooo happy with whatever choices they made :)
2024-10-17 22:10:32
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thestrongdani🩷 :
They always look so proud when they ask these questions, as if we haven’t analyzed and thought through every aspect of this ourselves. Their “gotcha” moment is something we reflected through as a teen
2024-10-17 11:59:32
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tamara 🍉🔻 :
men really have no business talking on this matter. ever.
2024-10-18 11:03:35
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Wot :
I was a birth control baby. Neither parent was ready for me and would have been much happier if I hadn’t been born so early in their lives. Both told my brother and I we were burdens frequently
2024-10-17 18:52:08
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OTTI :
I started telling them to think of their WORST ex and then ask how they’d feel if they had a pregnancy with her. Like how would HIS life be different if he was coparenting +tied to her for 18 yrs
2024-10-17 13:47:47
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Lillzy :
I have the best dad - and have never felt unloved by him. But I am quite confident that if he never knew about me/I never existed, he would be much happier.
2024-10-18 22:29:02
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Maven :
I feel nothing when they ask this, my mother reminded me daily that I was the cause of all her suffering. By the age of 12 I started saying “you should have never had me.”
2024-10-17 17:26:09
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Ameliasaur :
my mom is very fortunate that she got to CHOOSE when she was ready for me. she did not want children until she was older & what a beautiful thing that she was able to decide when she was ready 💙
2024-10-17 11:16:56
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sdBabyyy :
I would hope my mom wanted me and didn't feel forced. Cause being a parent is already so tough, I couldn't imagine if it wasn't wanted. I would want her happy, not burdened. 💙
2024-10-17 05:57:52
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KC :
my mom thinks getting married at 16 & having her 1st kid at 19 was totally normal, but I wish I had a more mature mother. maybe she wouldn't have partied so much leaving me at grandma's all the time.
2024-10-17 12:56:46
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MelMel :
My father changed after my mom became pregnant because he thought he could trap her in the marriage. I love her enough that if she had to do that to get away from him I would be proud of her.
2024-10-17 17:22:28
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LADS(Taylor’s version) :
Pretty sure my mom only had kids because she was “supposed” to. But my parents waited 5 years in the 70s. Which is long. I don’t think she wanted them.
2024-10-17 13:46:05
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Frenchwithelise :
I live my parents, I love my mum I wouldn't want them to suffer. It's very weird... If I had never existed I would not have existed I wouldn't be here why would I care.
2024-10-17 16:17:55
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Yer maw 🏴 :
Gonna go with I’d have no feeling on it since I wouldn’t have been developed enough to form anyone. My consciousness wouldn’t have been created and I’m ok with that
2024-10-17 18:37:01
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Johnny Bravo :
I used to tell my mom when I was younger that she shouldn’t have had me 😂 but if they want to talk philosophically, I wouldn’t having any feelings about it cause I wouldn’t feel anything 💁♀️
2024-10-17 15:20:41
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Andrea Desmier :
I have 4 congenital defects. My mom had an infection which caused fetal distress. If it came down to her or me, I’d have hoped she picked herself. They had to deal w my medical issues for many yrs.
2024-10-17 23:46:36
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Jen D :
My parents didn't want me, actually. My mom had her tunes tied 18 months before I was conceived. She took birth control for 13 years before that. Surgeon mistake resulted in me.
2024-10-17 14:51:20
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Ktcomplicated :
People who ask this question absolutely hate me. My mom DID have one when she was 19; 3 years before she met my father and 7 full years before she had me. If she hadn’t, I wouldn’t be here 🤷♀️
2024-10-17 21:55:26
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Hailey Lambert :
I didn’t ask to be here!!!! 😂 if my mom had felt like she wasn’t ready to provide for me for ANY reason, I wouldn’t have known the difference! Haha
2024-10-18 12:17:38
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Soph :
I wouldn't know my life, it's a moot point, and my mother would be happier or healthier. I love my mom and what wouldn't we give to save someone we love?
2024-10-18 03:35:50
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