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Kayla :
after moving from anxious avoisnrt to secure... I realized being secure doesn't mean you don't have insecure thoughts rather that you have good coping mechanisms and can work through those things.
2024-10-17 14:51:11
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snowi :
i have problems to distinguish between my real needs and fears cuz of the invalidation that began in childhood. do you have any tips on that?
2024-10-19 10:19:17
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Anthonycatnj :
paramount post 💯 percent
2024-10-18 12:32:30
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MoonRonin :
I hear this all the time. "I can only control myself, so you only feel what you feel. Not my responsibility" 🙄
2024-10-17 16:34:53
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AARon :
This is one of the best description of what security looks like internally Ive heard. The self-compassion behind the internal questions comes thru.thx
2024-10-19 00:52:20
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CALLE 6 CAPS :
You just hit me hard with this one
2024-10-17 14:35:30
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lauren :
this is such solid advice, thank you!
2024-10-17 16:36:11
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Marsea :
What if they come from both love and also fear ? 🥺
2024-11-19 14:09:41
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Tara :
Love your content, but right now I just need to know what lip stain you are using!
2024-10-23 22:27:28
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Brittany 🌈 :
Love this explanation ❤️
2024-10-18 15:10:44
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Xander :
😣 I’ve been in a situationship for 5 months now, and we compromised that she could go on dates but that she wouldn’t have sex with or regularly see anyone else. Now she wants to change the sex part
2024-10-17 22:14:42
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🍉Roombashooman 🇵🇱🇫🇮🏳️🌈 :
So if I don’t feel ok with her going to the club to flirt with people (just for the “game”,not cheating, tbf), when I’m giving her space cause she’s triggered…is still secure or am I being anxious? 🫥
2024-10-17 16:49:57
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mitchell :
i just don’t see there being a functional difference between the 2. if your partner ignores you for a full day when the expectation (based on precedent) is that you talk to each other everyday…
2024-10-19 00:26:29
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spacelotus :
YES! Secure ppl have those feelings but they know how to regulate and not harm the other, self abandon, or unhealthily depend on the other. Compromise isn’t abandoning ✨
2024-10-17 21:39:46
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voidinii :
it took me an eternity to understand that I was not being needy, and that my need of feeling loved and prioritized were valid since I only wanted what I already gave to be reciprocated.
2024-10-18 16:10:48
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riv :
Never have I heard these insights explained so clearly and simply in one place on this app 👏🏼🙌🏼
2024-10-20 00:05:34
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toniii_157 :
Often you’re anxious because your partner puts you in this position
2024-10-31 12:54:10
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BellaForza78🌶👠💋✝️ :
I was the anxious with the avoidant and now I’m the avoidant secure because I refuse to let anyone make me feel that way ever again So I’ll just stay with myself and love myself
2024-10-28 03:44:51
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Mohamed Abdi :
😂😂😂
2024-11-01 17:27:14
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Biddl3 🎤 :
Definitely needed to hear this
2024-10-21 11:08:52
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vv :
Golden Ty 🫶🏻
2024-10-21 09:10:27
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A :
Being secure doesn’t mean you lack boundaries. That’s showing that you are massively insecure. Because you’re unable to express even your own desires in fear of how the older person may perceive you
2024-10-20 05:49:22
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Ozeanastronaut :
it's not the hard part to recognise this, but facing two different opinions with your partner
2024-10-18 21:43:57
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moi_siuna :
i just know if my needs are reciprocated without asking for them, i give back to the relationship 2x, i multiply it, so if i feel like im asking for too much i ll just leave
2024-10-18 18:24:13
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gina silvana ♾️ :
@imjustale
2024-10-18 00:24:53
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