Ben Cole-Edwards
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Friday 18 October 2024 15:52:17 GMT
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🐲✨️Amy Ishine💫 :
"You cannot be a good child to a bad parent" WOW 5 + Decades of pain shame and guilt just left me✨️Bless you
2024-10-18 16:01:14
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dangernorm :
I felt ashamed when I first realized I don’t love my parents. This is so comforting!
2024-10-18 16:08:27
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lesego 🤍💍 :
it's so weird how most things that you say are so realistic 😔
2024-10-18 16:01:53
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Miss Lisa :
You first voiced the sentiment "you can not be a good child to a bad parent" some time ago. it has deeply affected my internal dialog relationship in times of conflict.
2024-10-18 17:26:18
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Moony Cade :
They kept me alive & taught me some things, but that's it. Mother is a narcissistic Karen and dad is better, a more likeable person, but uninvolved.
2024-10-18 16:24:57
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𝐍𝖔𝖊𝖑 :
I told my mother "look, I don't hate you, but if you weren't my parent but a stranger on the street, we would never end up as friends. my father and I would. that's the only difference"
2024-10-22 20:45:26
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Skythe Chaos :
The more of these I see from you, the more and more I realize I've already done a ton of healing on my own
2024-10-18 16:44:24
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SantoPurgatorio :
My parents thought that love was imposing to me all their beliefs. Not accepting who I was and how. I never felt seen. I had to fight so much to be respected. I felt humiliated at my house
2024-10-18 16:15:50
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Aura :
One of the worst things I've had to deal with is an emotionally unavailable father but then he turns around (with age and maturity) and be the exact loving father figure I needed to his grandkids. ☹️
2024-10-18 16:48:27
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TayyibahDuPreez :
At 37 I finally learnt to let go of the expectation of my parents being the kind of parents I needed. Letting go helped me heal and be for myself what I needed from others.
2024-10-18 16:07:29
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Annalise💖 :
At the end of this video I wasn't expecting that and that made me cry.
2024-10-18 16:34:14
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Fizzy :
How I feel towards my whole family, “you never call or see us” well you never call or come see me either. I’m still technically the “kid” of the family so why is it my job to check up on them….
2024-10-25 17:59:24
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andrew baker831 :
I love you man. thank you.
2024-10-18 18:21:17
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𝒥ℯ𝓃𝓃𝓎 :
I love you so much for saying the things that I’m not albe to describe, thank you for sharing it <3
2024-10-19 19:14:47
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Phan con mẹ Linh Mai :
I don't hate her, I still care about her. I just... can't love her.
2024-10-22 10:47:48
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Sianablues :
I went for the first time to see a therapist when I said to myself that I hate my parents, thinking something was wrong with me. The therapist helped me understand that okay and I'm not responsible for that
2024-10-18 20:17:30
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mssheather :
I'm 39 and my narcissistic father has dementia now and he's behaving even worse. I'll never have the father I deserved and it's been odd to realize that and that it's not my fault. 😞
2024-10-19 11:23:52
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C :
Omg, por fin me llegó mi tiktok más personal.
2024-10-23 15:06:03
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Adrienne :
I’m the oldest. I finally went no contact with my mother a year ago. It kills me that I feel this way while she provides the love to my little sister while I have always received none. I don’t want my sister to suffer the way I do, I just don’t understand why she can’t love me too.
2024-10-18 21:48:34
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Ruth Hoyos959 :
Particularly if your parents are narcissists! It really hurts to be the child they didn’t want (they wanted a boy) and being ignored and hit so many times that I lost track how many times
2024-10-29 06:15:09
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Cailyn :
What if ur parent(s) were the parent that I needed when I was first born but as I grew up they changed? They act completely different and hardly talk to me anymore and haven’t for years well my dad
2024-10-21 13:37:25
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🌸_FantomCat_🌸🏴 :
I knew this but needed someone else, a stranger, to tell me it's okay to let go.
2024-10-18 16:11:41
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Cat BLC :
I wish you were my EMDR therapist. She talks to me like a case study and you talk like we are actual humans.
2024-10-18 16:17:45
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hev :
Crying now cheers
2024-10-22 20:28:01
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._.mitra67 :
But they went through so much.. my dad was abused by his own father and beaten, my mum was always silenced, also abused by my father‘s family and by my own father, they are both children with-
2024-10-28 16:31:14
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