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Chris :
Avoidants are the absolute worst. No amount of clear and direct communication works on them even if you give them the space they want they’ll still give up on you and the relationship.
2024-10-19 23:45:12
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Danielle Poitra :
I feel like I’m an anxious that turned into an avoidant.🤷🏽♀️
2024-10-24 03:29:29
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rave :
ull never find avoidant reading this cuz if u think about the anxious wants to fix and the avoidant is ignoring, not sure if they really care
2024-12-06 23:07:53
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Detecting with Kurt :
Im an avoidant and currently in this exact situation, I really want to change but struggle with where to start. All the past issues always creep back into the arguments/discussions
2024-12-06 12:49:41
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Andrea🪽 :
the anxious people often blame the avoidant, but can we all agree that both need to work on developing a secure attachment style.
2024-10-26 21:39:15
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binc :
I sacrifice my well-being for his space and peace constantly. I wait until he comes to me no matter how much it hurts me. The difference is that he has the luxury of living in blissful indifference
2024-11-12 22:08:11
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Sanne ♡ :
As an anxious person.. being able to tell him I was not staying friends, that I know my value and I’m either all in or all out was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done! Cause I wanted to stay
2024-10-21 06:47:02
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Rian Jordan :
Juss went through this. I’m the avoidant. I admit I hid my emotions becuz I feared her truly seeing me and then not liking me anymore. I hurt her by not being open all the time. 3 years wasted 😢😢
2024-10-20 12:36:25
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3773 :
It's an awful dynamic. As an anxious, I couldn't deal with the constant anxiety and stress and being ignored. It was making me feel physically ill. 🥺
2024-10-24 06:49:43
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crypticpony :
my da ex reached out for friendship for the second time. Doesn’t discuss what happened between us, probably hopes it will go away. But I haven’t responded to either messages.
2024-10-19 22:10:50
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Mia Elaine :
Now what about two avoidant partners
2024-10-27 03:16:04
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Twizzard :
I hope they get the help they need🙏🏼 cause I miss her
2024-10-20 04:00:43
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pandurhamonium :
Great Explanation
2024-10-20 05:22:08
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Damocles :
going through this atm; yes that is 100% accurate. It's not a fight; it's survival, and empathy will bridge the gap...but it is painful as an anxious attached. My partner expresses both fear/regret
2024-10-21 00:26:52
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KolbyAlyce :
me n bf. totally lol
2024-10-22 01:44:32
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Erica :
My relationship with my mom is not good. I’m the anxious one I want to confront it directly. My mom is dismissive she says it can’t be fixed and shuts
2024-10-21 23:46:39
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Hana 🇲🇾🇮🇩🇯🇴 :
🥰🥰🥰 tq so much
2024-10-20 01:46:04
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rosy :
I'm just now learning that my husband is an avoidance and why. it explains alot. I wish I had known years ago. it's impossible to relate to them unless you understand avoidant behavior, which is did
2024-10-25 02:23:29
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jon T207 :
is it a bad idea to send this to her, if she's unaware..? she's just gunna feel attacked and get distant.. idk what to do at this point.
2024-11-09 19:21:01
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emily :
This explains my last ltr. My avoidant EX would ALWAYS get triggered by the word “reassurance”. Literally could never bring it up. If I did it would lead to a fight. Idk how we lasted 3 years 😅
2025-01-18 09:48:36
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pffftttt :
I'm both
2024-12-16 21:33:42
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JV Reyes :
We fought and and he broke up with me a couple times but this time, he was influenced by his friends to break up with me and his friends were more important to him than me.
2024-12-12 06:28:33
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tylernie03 :
We just needed to not gloss over anything and ensured we talked about things. I'm hoping we can try again but she doesn't think it's possible...
2024-12-14 02:42:44
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ShawnBonn :
We just broke up not long ago. I had to end it because she did not have the strength to. I feel so numb, but I had to assure her that it wasn’t her fault. I hope she finds healing of all trauma.
2024-10-19 17:57:39
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