It is because Americans are ALWAYS in bs corporate speech mode. It feels like the inauthentic way you talk in a work office . . . ALWAYS. They never take the corporate mask off and show their trie selves (because there is nothing real inside ro show.)
2025-08-19 21:18:15
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Travel_Dust :
I think Americans need to stop caring what Europeans think of them. Who cares? I don’t.
2024-10-20 16:21:50
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Sara :
Somebody else's cynicism doesn't invalidate our optimism, ya know? 🤷🏼♀️
2024-10-20 17:19:31
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user4703400046996 :
I am Californian. Love seeing your perspective. We mean our compliments and mood.
2024-10-20 16:21:19
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Tacosandmargs :
I completely agree and my friends from Europe say the same, it’s more cynical and people are not as optimistic about every day life in Europe. We are raised in the states to dream big, nothings out of our reach. We grow up smiling and waving. I will never compliment someone if I don’t mean it. We just are a bit more upbeat in life compared to Europe. I say we… obviously not every American. We also are loud and confident with our personality’s.
2024-10-20 16:42:07
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lizzyborden :
But why? I think Europeans conflate friendly and friends - when we are friendly and complimentary we are NOT saying we are lifelong friends.
2024-10-20 16:32:06
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joelglevi :
Americans know Europeans think this, because they will say it to our faces. I don’t care what they think.
2024-10-20 16:24:28
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jnewmark44 :
Europeans are very envious and stuck in their rigid mindsets. My opinion.
2024-10-20 16:19:50
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Kristen ✨ :
I will never open my mouth to compliment someone when I don’t mean it.
2024-10-20 21:04:08
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cato 🌎☮️ :
It’s not just us in USA. That friendly attitude & smiles runs throughout American continent. Canada, USA, Mexico, Guatemala..ext.
2024-10-20 22:42:16
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lenaserrano224 :
Americans are in general optimistic it is one aspect of our culture, not a part of European culture.
2024-10-20 17:38:09
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smmurrsiebutt :
life is too short to spend it miserable. I'd rather find joy and happiness in the small mundane things than spend my time gloomy. I don't care if that makes Europeans think I'm fake. @ least I'm happy
2024-10-20 16:49:04
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Josiewest18 :
Being raised in the American friendly culture is why we are as we are. It’s not fake. It’s our way of life. Just going out and interacting with strangers is uplifting, especially when having a bad day
2024-10-20 19:23:19
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Leah kovalenko! :
Optimism and the pursuit of happiness is baked in here. We truly believe in it.
2024-10-22 14:56:15
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elp466 :
Why do Europeans assume what we are like across the country? I can't say Norwegians or Italians are like this or that. I find it disturbing. 😳 is it Hollywood?
2024-10-20 16:21:28
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WendyReadsBooks🇺🇸🇺🇦 :
I’m an introvert so if I give a compliment I mean it
2024-10-20 18:20:13
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raquelmendeznunez1 :
we don't care I've been to Europe and there are a lot of rude people there
2024-10-20 19:40:40
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Your Face :
100% of Americans don't care what Europeans think of them 👍
2024-10-21 06:42:03
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1973firebird :
or maybe Europe's are just mean
2024-10-21 02:15:42
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WhyGeorgeRuns :
You’re the best … We love you
2024-10-20 18:31:59
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jonlouis1 :
I’m from Hawaii and there is a greater spirit that joins us all in goodness. Aloha spirit to be specific. I can’t run from it even if I tried 🌸🕊️😇
2024-10-20 17:56:32
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Joe M :
The more I hear about what Europeans think of Americans, the less I think of Europeans
2024-10-28 21:51:36
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roman12577 :
I just started a new job most of my coworkers are from South America India and Asia with a smattering of Eastern European I smile try and make jokes chit chat is hard language barrier but I think
2024-10-22 03:33:40
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Tim :
We’re taught manners, and being polite from a VERY young age here. Most of us can go anywhere and make friends. Been to 8 countries and found locals that wanted to hang out in every one 🤷
2024-10-21 00:54:56
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m4rglr🫧 :
the only time i can understand it being fake is with customer service, especially at chain companies. nobody else feels obligated to be nice to you 😭💀
2024-10-20 22:15:49
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bhann33 :
jealousy
2024-10-20 18:19:18
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searching0710 :
I've found privately Europeans feel happy when you compliment them. Especially the men. Women are less receptive.
2024-10-20 18:15:26
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user7024306778754 :
Sometimes when I compliment a stranger and I hear a English accent when they say thanks, I worry that they think I was being fake.
2024-10-20 16:40:42
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WeThePeople66 :
America is truly the land of opportunity and anybody that wants to become wealthy and have the freedom to do whatever they like to do in life just have to work hard and you can accomplish that. The only obstacle to success in this country is yourself.
2024-10-20 16:25:32
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C :
Are Europeans cynical or not optimistic?
2024-10-20 16:19:33
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Mondaybluesky :
Why would I spend energy complimenting a random person to be malicious? I don’t know them lol, there wouldn’t be a point.
2024-11-01 18:04:16
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Courtney :
Yes we can be fake but it’s more of a moving on , enjoying life , ignoring all the negativity, not letting anyone bring you down
2024-10-31 01:46:32
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MHooby915 :
We are just nice. Europeans are very closed off and guarded.
2024-10-27 19:42:32
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theferaldressmaker :
So weird. Europeans have so many great things: health care, pensions, public transportation! Wild they are still choosing grumpiness. We’re out here swinging in the breeze and are pretty cheerful.
2024-10-27 18:30:47
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Fonduie :
My take away as to why they assume we are fake is that Europeans must be fake when they are in a good mood, give compliments, have success... that's their experience so they also assign that to Americans. Jeez, sounds so miserable.
2024-10-27 15:16:15
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verily :
Also, regions vary here with respect to social interactions. Nyc is distinct.
2024-10-27 02:41:57
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✨To Dream A Little Dream✨ :
That’s actually really sad ngl
2024-10-27 02:16:11
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Elle 📚 :
Yes, it's simply a matter of Europeans projecting.
2024-10-26 11:35:51
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MilkywayChick :
It’s interesting because yes the U.S has its things but this isn’t *necessarily * just an American thing. Many other countries outside of Europe will smile at/ acknowledge others.
2024-10-24 19:14:35
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BUNTYOneGenX :
@yvanabee
2024-10-23 01:21:29
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BUNTYOneGenX :
💯🇺🇸🇺🇸
2024-10-23 01:20:09
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evp :
Only in the case of Trump.
2024-10-23 00:38:47
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Genie Donie :
the only leg they have to stand on there is faking our mood specifically how we're doing ourselves not how we treat others but even then we might still be in a better mood comparatively
2024-10-22 12:49:46
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Chilihook :
This is why exchange programs are so important in schools. The more you experience another country the more you understand each other. And understanding each other is everything.
2024-10-22 12:13:22
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Jorge Naranjo :
You’re in nyc. That’s completely different than the rest of the US. NYCers don’t need to fake anything.
2024-10-22 01:24:32
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trampytrashpanda :
we have no energy for anything, so if we take the energy to compliment you its gonna be sincere 😂
2024-10-21 22:22:22
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Kelly :
I grew up in a small town and got into trouble for not waving at someone who drove by…they told my mother on me!
2024-10-21 14:41:41
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Troll :
It’s true, we are fake.
2024-10-21 07:31:31
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Camera lady :
Haha. May be true for some parts. But not for NYC. We are called rude in the US. And it’s cause we aren’t fake.
2024-10-21 04:47:19
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