they say "I need to put myself first JUST THIS ONCE" but they say that everyday. so basically they always put themselves first and never anyone else
2024-10-22 14:01:36
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Haleigh :
My therapist told me people pleasers never please people, I was gutted but it made sense lmfao
2024-10-22 16:33:33
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not_you_x :
explain to me cause I really don't think like I'm a bad person lmao and I was like this a lot
2024-10-24 11:29:10
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Mitch :
My biggest fear is being this person. I’m in therapy but they only get my version of events
2024-10-22 17:04:37
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mennamachine :
My ex best friend told me I took advantage of her being a people pleaser. A woman who once pouted through MY birthday because she didn’t like what I chose to do to celebrate.
2024-10-22 08:28:17
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LalaLynnster :
My mom claims shes an “empath” after yelling at me that she doesnt care about my opinions 😂😂
2024-10-22 15:01:55
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robin (taylor’s version) |-/ ⎕ :
They say “I’m just a people pleaser” but they’ve never once done something out of the goodness of their heart rather than what they thought would greatly benefit (or entertain) solely themselves
2024-10-23 08:25:06
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Alicornofdoom :
For real. It’s like when the meanest, most judgmental person you know tells you that they’ve been encouraging& optimistic- good to know their opinion of you is even WORSE than what they say out loud.
2024-10-22 13:48:11
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ginger emu :
The worst person you know will tell you how every person they’ve ever been close to always leaves them.And when you dip because they are awful,you become the next villain in their long list of sob sto
2024-10-23 02:44:21
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Alex :
As a people pleaser that's working on it.. I think it's cuz we're trying too hard to avoid being a problem that we don't realize not communicating or communicating poorly or whatever *is* a problem 😅
2024-10-22 18:38:06
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M :
I’ve found that a lot of people pleasers are also avoidant 🥰
2024-10-24 15:24:25
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kelp :) :
my old roommate told us that we used him as a doormat because he didn’t know how to say no. we just asked him to do his dishes.
2024-10-22 15:59:09
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Becca :
I am a “people pleaser” in a sense. Many of the things I do for people don’t benefit me, and don’t make them like me any more. I will often do things I don’t want to do to help out.
2024-10-24 04:37:31
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Hettie | Booktok they/them :
Someone tell me not to send this to her lmfao
2024-10-22 14:42:21
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BLMXalimo :
My ex friend called herself the “mom” friend who can see the “future” and basically just tried convinced me to drop my major because it made her insecure lmao.
2024-10-22 16:24:41
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KK 🇵🇷 :
nah rs it's cause we try to please everyone at once and what makes one person content won't make the other content so we just end up looking like ...
2024-10-22 11:07:34
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vex ᖭི༏ᖫྀ ꩜ :
ok now I’m paranoid this is me fr
2024-10-23 12:08:49
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masterofyap :
as a therapist my most challenging clients say this, it just goes to show that your perception of pleasing others is wasteful!
2024-10-22 19:55:00
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𒉭 nik 𒉭 :
my ex best friend…
2024-10-23 13:35:57
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Noe🦑🐇 :
yall dont understand
2024-10-23 14:51:43
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Aster :
I know what you mean but being a people pleaser has this exact issue. 😅 It doesn't work very well to accomplish what it sets out to do, as do most trauma responses.
2024-10-22 17:47:56
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Indigo :
I’m so scared that this is how people see me. I feel like such a burden because of my disability and I don’t want to be hated for it again/anymore. I don’t want to let anyone down I’m just so tired
2024-10-23 01:49:02
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abby :
no one actually that’s my issue it makes me feel worse and them that’s why it’s not a positive thing when i say it 😍😍😍
2024-10-31 14:14:50
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Kacper Korbiel :
O i have one. One time my friends wanted to have a "crazy" party (there was 3 of us) so i dance alone in a big room, loud music pretending to have a time of my life so they could feel special
2024-10-23 17:18:24
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