@chris_hatfield: Communicating With Avoidants: Instead of This > Say This #avoidantattachment #avoidant #attachment #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #communicationtips #communication #datingtips
No no no! Do not walk on eggshells for them. It only gives them a sense of power to dictate the relationship. If they can’t be a decent human than that’s THEIR problem. Avoid the avoidant.
2024-10-27 01:05:48
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Moira Jo | Avoidant Attachment :
Aww this is so cool
2025-05-07 23:36:58
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Rik Tok :
isn't separating ways saying end the friendship?
2025-06-05 23:08:19
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cathleen Bell Harper :
Love it
2024-10-23 04:36:58
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Snow_☃️✨🤍 :
Any insight as to why he would tell me he loves me for the first time then get a little distant? 😔
2024-10-21 22:08:36
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xdwaveyy :
🤔
2024-10-21 16:56:29
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Mel :
yes, we are in control of how we communicate.
2024-10-22 02:15:48
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Isa Sanchez :
i do that and he STILL acts like this
so f that lol
2024-10-26 17:15:19
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Dreki :
What would you recommend for reaching out to an avoidant that pulled away and now feels guilty about it so they’re staying away?
2024-10-21 21:21:54
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RyanLion :
Can’t text you back but their snap score ⬆️
2024-10-21 19:43:27
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GenxGigiK :
I SUCK at this! 🤣 I’m a no BS person but I can come across as harsh. It’s just my boundaries have been crossed so much I just have lost patience. But I’m really trying to learn
2024-10-21 16:57:47
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𝘿𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙚 𝙅𝙧🦅 :
You're a pro man, I just realized how bad I communicate listening to you💯
2024-10-26 11:53:34
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AtomicAdventurer :
No point Chris. She was too much to handle. I cannot change myself so much just to meet her comfort zone and sacrificing all if mine. Not forever mate. I dumped her yesterday!
2024-10-24 14:43:07
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Marissa Kristine :
the first style is more of an attack and the second is more of a warm welcome.
2024-10-23 12:20:22
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Em :
“can we take a few minutes to reach a resolution on X topic?” instead of “can we just sit down and talk?” or “i need to talk something out, i just need you to listen” instead of dumping for 4 hrs
2024-10-26 17:17:29
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Holly Esco Whirley :
😳😳😳
2024-11-02 17:57:03
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user1723946867261 :
what are your thoughts about compromising your authentic self when doing this for a direct communicator?
2024-11-09 13:16:55
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