@opusreality: The oldest parentified daughter believes her role is to fix everything and everyone around her. She keeps her depression a secret. And fantasizes about meeting the one person who will finally see her for who she is, not how she can perform for them. The oldest parentified daughter listened to marital problems, walked on egg shells, and did her best to manage everyone else's anxiety. No one noticed her own anxiety. She spent most of her time in her room, fantasizing about the perfect families on tv. The parentified daughter had to be the responsible and strong one because no one else was. She wants someone to lift her load, to care about what she feels, and to be a shoulder for her to cry on instead of keeping it together. The parentified daughter feels overwhelmed by exhaustion and burnout, yet she habitually conceals these emotions. As time passes, she internalizes the belief that her own feelings and needs are insignificant. Struggling to comprehend her emotional state, she finds herself in a state of confusion, having never experienced genuine attunement from others. ❝ Nicole LePera

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