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Six 🇨🇦 :
my biological dad's excuse for being abusive is that his parents abused him and I'm just like ??? so you decided to do it too???
2024-10-22 22:05:01
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Ladonna TV :
“The second your trauma is making you hurt somebody else, your feelings don’t matter anymore” BARS!!!✊🏾🙏🏾🎯
2024-10-23 20:23:19
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Juli :
spot on. literally. my brother is so unkind and cruel and I've gone no contact with everyone
2024-10-22 20:57:45
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Chloe :
and they'll use your trauma against you as a way of excusing their bad behavior. like "oh its not my fault ur triggered from things that happened before "
2024-10-24 03:27:35
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JakeJabbers :
it's genuinely sad to see people use pain to inflict pain. it's the difference between a hero and a villain. the hero Heals and tries to prevent more pain, the villain perpetuates it.
2024-10-22 21:02:34
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Rare polar bear :
My older brother physically beat his GF and my dad was like “but you don’t know what she did to him” - no contact, no regrets.
2024-10-23 16:11:38
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BE FR 💞 :
as an abused child who just left her first abusive relationship. I WAS LITERALLY RAISED TO THINK ABUSE AND LOVE GO HAND IN HAND. NEVER AGAIN
2024-10-24 07:40:20
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Victoria ✨ Spoonie Single Mom :
This was literally my ex husband, I think one of the main things that helped me see that the relationship would never be salvageable is that… I had a hard childhood too, and I’m not like that
2024-10-23 15:22:45
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Margo💀🩷 :
That's my father, anytime we were upset with his abuse against us.....it was well my childhood blahhhhh
2024-10-22 22:43:43
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𝙂𝙖𝙗𝙗𝙮🔻 :
This is what kept me in a 12yr long relationship, things finally came undone and I woke TF up and realized he was just an awful person who blamed his abuse, but refused help and to see it in himself
2024-10-23 16:59:22
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cheeseballbilly :
I feel so doomed, I am trying to heal so bad but I have literally never seen a healthy relationship in my adult life to base my own perception of relationships on.
2024-10-23 21:17:47
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Jac ⋆˙⟡♡ :
That quote “even though your situation is understandable it does not mean your actions are acceptable”
2024-10-24 02:13:53
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Candela A :
Every ex I’ve had has childhood trauma, but so did I, and I never used to to justify treating them poorly.
2024-10-24 00:29:35
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Nat :
I caught myself turning into my father and put myself right into intensive therapy. Will do anything to unlearn this. its devastating when ppl can't see the pattern in themselves.
2024-10-24 19:18:27
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Frrrrrr and my trauma wasn’t acknowledged until my early adulthood. So usually I get into relationships or even friendships with someone who replicates that abuse and I don’t even realize it until (1
2024-10-23 20:09:56
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alex ♠️🖤 :
i’ve needed this for years. thank you
2024-10-24 00:33:43
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Gaius Augustus Germanicus :
So many people are traumatized and not everyone knows. I didn't know for decades and my case was severe enough to almost bury me twice.
2024-10-23 17:08:11
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user2832741607569 :
My ex be like
2024-10-24 01:40:59
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🌈 Saturn 🪐 :
100%! It took me noticing a pattern of childhood trauma triggers that came up with my ex to connect the dots. It's a really hard cycle to break 💔
2024-10-23 22:37:55
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redd :
you nailed it. now on to how to address the issue. 😞
2024-10-23 14:58:15
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Breskva :
You have described my dad. Awful childhood which could make you emphasise with him but he's terribly abusive to his wife
2024-10-24 00:53:29
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Queen of Swords ☾ :
My now husband and I both have abusive childhoods. We were really close as teens but in our early 20’s I saw him getting worse and thought he didn’t want to get better so I cut contact for 8 years.1/2
2024-10-24 15:15:35
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