@seemaanandstorytelling: I want to add that offering to change the position will not instantly bring a change of behaviour - that will be a process of rebuilding comfort, pleasure and trust! When an issue becomes part of the subconscious brain it takes time to shift the narrative. But starting to communicate and understand is half the battle. 🧠🤺 Stereotypes are harmful for everyone! Being up, down, left or right is NOT what defines “being a man”, but creating an environment of shared mutually pleasurable intimacy and good communication will certainly make you “THE MAN” in your partner’s life!!!