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Bored_Dwarf :
As a man I feel similar. I feel a responsibility to marry and father children, and it seems like something I should want, but I don't really feel like I want any..
2024-10-26 00:06:11
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Aurem 💛🤍💜🖤 :
how would it be selfish to choose to not have kids? selfishness is putting yourself above others, are you being selfish to a person that doesn't exist yet? that just sounds hella stupid like huh 😭💀
2024-10-24 01:14:20
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The Yuri Destroyer :
Its understandable but childish. Your mind set on it is sacrificing your life instead of adding to your life, this is classic fear mongering rhetoric made to keep women single and unstable
2024-10-26 00:25:30
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lolmanboss128 :
Valid points, but when you get older, you might regrett that decision. I've seen many elder people who are alone and nobody can care for them.
2024-12-03 10:30:37
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Gasnix ('96) :
>it's not selfish >describes being selfish :o
2024-10-25 02:07:11
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veyclassic :
"mememememe" "no im not selfish"
2024-10-25 23:24:58
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ajatux :
i love how the child free people are very quick to point out that "actually you can't be selfish towards unborn people ☝️🤓", but when I clarify that that was never the argument they go real silent. the "victim" here isn't the unborn child, it is society, since we aren't getting another future taxpayer
2024-10-24 14:28:51
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small :
I don't think it's selfish. but the way you worded it kinda reinforces that line of thinking
2024-10-25 05:53:02
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Vengeful Rat :
Eh, your choice. But we'll see what you say when you're 60/70/80, alone, miserable and no one comes to visit. As you grow older, you realize how important family is.
2024-10-24 13:10:58
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YourMomsTh1ghs :
who want to bring a kid up in this economy and this day and age tbh
2024-10-24 00:29:09
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lednik :
giving birth is possibly the most selfish thing you can do
2024-10-25 16:15:42
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🍉🍉🍉Sixspades🍉🍉🍉 :
in a similar adjacent boat. you are correct yet again
2024-10-24 01:13:57
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ajatux :
>says it is not selfish >lists all the ways it is selfish what don't get me wrong, not having children is great and all, but i really hate this faulty logic
2024-10-24 04:07:54
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Bailey Padilla :
Dope tats! Also fax
2024-10-26 02:39:01
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🎸💙🐰Sky🐰💙🎸 :
honestly even if it was selfish, so what? is it really that bad to go "I don't want to spend the minimum of 18 years raising an entire human being"??
2024-10-24 09:53:00
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hauntedbytheHolySpirit :
...ok?
2024-10-24 04:44:22
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Cider 🍁 :
as someone who has a child, you are 1000% valid for that! it's your time and your life! and if you know you don't wish for that, then dont. that is your right! and its not selfish!
2024-10-24 00:15:54
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thegrimmheretic.art :
I don’t think either are selfish. Having or not having. It’s just a personal choice. Some people find joy in having a family and some don’t. As long as you and your partner agree then who cares 🫶
2024-10-25 23:17:31
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vigirousegrubb69 :
facts. also in this world and economy…yeh hell no
2024-10-24 09:48:07
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Joseph :
Having children is the biggest pyramid scheme. People want to be parents, but don't want to raise children. They just want a kid as a retirement plan and legacy. That's selfish
2024-10-24 21:04:48
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Taku :
If you aren't hurting anyone and everyone is safe and happy. Live life as you see fit! Though some people can't seem to understand that and get butthurt when you have a different opinion from theirs.
2024-10-24 18:32:25
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The Sun Angel :
im with u i dont care about other only about my wife if she really wants a child and i mean really really then im going to think about it because i love her thats the only posebility #badenglish
2024-11-28 06:32:14
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maggie :
ppl saying this is selfish but ppl usually have kids for selfish reasons...
2024-10-25 15:48:52
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killerkristov :
Even if it is selfish. Screw it. Be selfish.
2024-10-24 09:49:06
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hmm :
there are 50 different ethical arguments you could make for why you don't want a child and you chose the dumbest one...
2024-10-24 04:43:17
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darkspartantrev :
Anyone who hates on someone cause they don’t want children have literally nothing worthwhile going on in their lives
2024-10-25 16:38:26
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Nomad🇨🇦 :
As another child free person, it is selfish, but selfish =/= bad or immoral, it's doing things for your own benefit and that's perfectly ok
2024-10-24 02:40:08
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DatBoiDogey :
and if I'm ready for a kid, I'd rather adopt some forgotten teen in the system, give them a second chance, and show them a better world than just the hell they've lived in
2024-10-25 20:29:28
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Dr.DotHog :
thank god i'm autistic enough to just know i don't need to so anything society tells us is our "duty"
2024-12-11 03:29:01
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jlkjlkjp :
you're right it your choice and you probably think this through before and made your call about it and people should respect that
2024-12-08 20:56:49
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Somalia :
Exactly! Someone deciding to not have kids with THEIR body isn’t selfish to anyone because it’s THEIR body, they’re not obligated to give anyone a baby & the kid(s) didn’t ask to be here before birth.
2024-11-12 06:52:28
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The Great Druid Gnome :
ngl id rather someone who doesnt want kids to not have kids. Thats how abusers are created
2024-10-26 01:45:32
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Chrisss :
its not selfish everyone has the right to make their own choices, selfish are the people who have kids and don't take care of them...some in the comments
2024-11-17 20:11:41
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HoForDaeHo :
im not adding stress to my already stressful life, ruining my body, and giving up my hobbies and 18+ years of my life anyone, let alone a kid i don’t even know
2024-10-26 04:13:31
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sleppy_zorro :
is really sad that somebody make you feel like a selfish person for didn't want something, nobody is obligated to have kid that never will be a good thing
2024-10-26 07:22:50
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ashe_dash :
facts I'm not letting a little devil lock my in my shitty hometown
2024-10-25 15:51:04
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Kiana. :
People see women like this… yikes this world is cooked
2024-11-09 12:28:02
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jester.jay :
People who say its selfish not to have kids are delusional. Baby's can't choose to be born, and will be forced into a life they will be at the mercy of until they are old enough to carve a path.
2024-10-26 21:29:24
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H̵y̵p̸o̵t̴h̴e̴t̵i̴c̴M̷y̷t̷h̷ :
Also this economy is trash. Even if I wanted one (i dont) I wouldnt do it in this economy.
2024-10-26 22:25:55
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Salem48 :
Bringing life without fully knowing its gravity is the real crime, one perpetrated by most, you, on the other hand, are responsible and proactive.
2024-11-07 09:19:04
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☆ Midnight ☆ :
Fair enough.. it’s your body, your choice so don’t know why people are moaning
2024-11-06 10:47:22
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blokeperson :
Valid, period.
2024-11-01 17:23:17
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Autumn :
Saying this as someone w/ no kids and a vasectomy, I have the same reasons but I see it as selfish, but that's not a bad thing!
2024-10-24 21:19:45
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Basil :
I don’t want a child, I want fiber internet and tacos every night.
2024-10-24 14:41:08
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 :
Sell fish how much ?
2024-12-23 05:41:38
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TeamPlayerTy :
My life is devoted to taking care and enjoying life for myself and my wife. YOU only live once and we want every second for ourselves.
2024-10-24 16:04:18
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Lotus :
In my experience, those with kids end up being way more selfish
2025-01-06 22:01:33
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Error[404] :
You're reasons are better than mine at least. I'm a chonically depressed misanthrope. Why would i create more people if i hate people? lol
2024-10-24 18:02:22
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EternalEdge :
A large portion of it for me is also just seeing the state of the world. It just doesn't feel morally correct to bring life into a world like this.
2024-10-24 12:49:24
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JackWolfDM :
And even if it is selfish, then so be it! I wanna live my life not dedicate it someone else
2024-12-22 02:18:55
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Aufmarck :
I don’t want kids, if I did I’m terrified they’ll turn out like me
2024-10-24 10:47:29
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Arrow115 :
Understandable
2024-10-24 03:49:18
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Vskutku Trigen :
selfish is making children if u cant pay for all its dreams.
2024-12-22 01:40:36
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𝐻𝑎𝑖𝑙𝑠 :
Not to mention, why would you in this economy rn
2025-01-09 10:09:31
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Owldolf :
uff this comments 😂😂 if you don't want them for any reason that's fine ^^ and trying to change that in an comments section is kinda selfish too. womp womp🖤
2024-11-08 18:25:54
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