@juststay4anotherday: I placed the soil in a beautiful spot that he would’ve loved. My intention was to place it with a sequoia tree, which was his favourite tree, but unfortunately, this area doesn’t have any and it’s not something I can do right now. Grief is very confusing. It’s been four years and I’m still experiencing different forms of grief. #j#juststay4anotherdaym#mentalhealthmattersh#healing
I lived in the house my husband committed in and at first I needed the home
2024-10-24 21:36:44
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Shae :
1)It's not uncommon to hold on to anything of them even if it's something others don't understand. My daughter's bf was shot and killed and she keeps the tissue she used to wipe blood from her hands
2024-10-25 08:40:12
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Jessica Cheyenne | STL :
I remember following when you built the path. Don’t be sorry for how you grieve.
2024-10-24 21:42:32
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Cat Perry :
Doesn't sound horrible at all ♡ what he put you through after the fact would make the strongest person wobble, your amazing never forget that, u dealt with everying with nothing but grace ♡
2024-10-24 21:17:09
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Morrigan :
We all cope in different ways, it doesn't sound horrible at all. Healing is a personal journey. For me it's 12 years later and my feelings still fluctuate. Do whatever you need in the moment 🫶🏻
2024-10-27 03:14:39
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meagan :
the energy contained in the soil has diminished, you absorbed every last drop of his presence .. returning it to the earth was only fitting ✨
2024-10-27 18:30:01
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Mizzy Shader :
It doesn't sound horrible. You just no longer have the same emotional attachment to a physical thing, and I dunno, with grieving I can only imagine that's a good progression towards healing.
2024-10-25 20:18:44
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katiecamus5 :
I feel this deep in my soul. I slept in my husbands clothes, then couldn’t even look at a picture so I took everything down. It’ll pass. It’ll change ❤️
2024-10-24 21:48:06
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Edwardo365 :
this is healing, you feel how you feel and if it brought you comfort when you needed it then it wasn't just dirt, if it now brings you sorrow then it's just dirt again and can be treated as such.
2024-10-25 01:54:27
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Sachia Marie :
This is one of the reasons I love TikTok because there are others that can relate and not feel so alone in our grief journey 🥰
2024-10-24 22:02:18
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amw [America’s Most Wanted] :
The fact that you moved him from a low place he took an exit out on, to a beautiful spot & you know he would’ve loved it proves you did the right thing
2024-10-27 04:53:47
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dupreandmoore :
Nothing about how you grieve is weird. It’s a personal journey and you grieve how you see fit. Every step in the journey is different. You do what’s best for you. Sending you love. 🖤
2024-10-24 21:59:19
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Chloe🩷 :
lots of love to you xxx
2024-10-24 21:12:37
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Amy Pogrund :
grief is a journey and if there’s anything I’ve learned from losing my brother (the same way) it’s that my grief is all so different day to day, you’re not weird — sending you so much love ❤️
2024-10-27 01:28:47
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✨💫Tay Tay✨💫 :
How you deal with your grief is not weird. It’s your way. I’m sorry you had to deal with judgement from others & I’m so sorry for your loss. Heal your way. ❤️
2024-10-24 22:12:07
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Nosmo King :
My best friend died in a car crash due to black ice. I have the speedometer gauge from her car that I found cleaning up road. I didn’t want her son to see car parts all over on the side of the road.
2024-10-26 23:53:28
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Jess :
I hid my mom’s ashes in the closet because if I saw them I felt sick to my stomach. You are not alone in this weird grief stage.
2024-10-26 23:14:52
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SaoSy :
I always admire your strength and helping others too. Pain is ever changing emotions.
2024-10-25 05:37:51
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mollymedley :
Grief is so weird. For months after my mom passed, I would obsessively watch every video of her and constantly be looking at photos of her. Now, 15 months later, I simply can’t. It hurts too much.
2024-10-28 14:37:29
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DW :
You have to do what’s best for you,know one knows exactly what your going through. 🫂🥰
2024-10-25 02:01:31
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peepeepoopoo :
it doesn't sound horrible. not at all. not even a little.
2024-10-27 02:31:05
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Alison Smith :
It doesn’t sound horrible! It’s what u needed at the time 💗
2024-10-24 21:25:37
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fl_jamie :
Hugs ❤️
2024-10-24 22:09:47
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