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then they hit you with the “ wow i can’t believe u didn’t tell me sooner. so you hated me the whole time?” 😭 like no i just got the courage to bring it up and i want to resolve it with you
2024-10-29 05:46:02
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AstroGirl87! :
While what you’re saying is correct, this pop-psychology therapy jargon is soooooo off putting.
2024-10-28 19:35:42
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Hope :
I’ve debated many times whether or not addressing something is worth it and it usually depends on how I was received the first time. Most are hostile and defensive
2024-10-29 11:33:46
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brown.me.squish :
But what if in that conversation they’re projecting their own stuff onto you, not understanding you? Those ppl don’t deserve your time
2024-10-28 22:07:23
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Jessica Annabelle Grace :
I'm afraid to really say anything anymore because I was always burned for it in the end. Hell, I'm even afraid to develop new friendships because of it
2024-10-28 22:44:36
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theloveofty :
Amen
2024-11-07 01:55:47
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yaradahl :
didn't realise what i was having trouble describing until I heard this, thank you!!
2024-10-31 23:07:53
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Artemis 💀🪻 :
I used to take it so personally but today, I'm HONORED if someone brings up something I did wrong 🥰 it shows they care and want out relationship to stay good
2024-10-31 13:29:47
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Bunny :
I’ve sadly had friendships end because of giving feedback and asserting boundaries… atp I just don’t even want to make friends anymore. ☹️
2024-10-29 18:24:41
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hooli ଘ( .‸.) :
all I got was “thank you for communicating that.” … oh oh I see
2024-10-30 05:40:37
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Kaysy :
Dude I put in sooo much effort in even tho it was uncomfortable & they treated me like I was such a inconvenience.
2024-10-30 15:48:01
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reinishii0x :
Nobody ever did this with me 😅
2024-11-08 03:53:55
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𝕟𝕠𝕟𝕓𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕣𝕪𝕡𝕚𝕤𝕔𝕖𝕤 :
Please send this to him bc I don’t wanna be disregulated trying to explain myself anymore lmfao
2024-10-29 12:37:56
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🍄🟫Stumpling🌿 :
Or they get defensive or think you’re trying to argue when in reality if I didn’t like you I wouldn’t even be in your life
2024-10-29 22:21:52
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sosowrongy :
Yessss!!!!!
2024-11-06 06:25:09
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Cass :
It has only ever gone wrong for me so I gave up
2024-10-29 00:57:02
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Catfish Out of Water :
This is completely off topic, but where did you get that shirt??
2024-10-28 13:21:42
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bumble_bear_honey :
Being peppered with a billion questions instead of taking my word for it hurts so badly. Like, I have to present my dissertation on their bad behavior for them to even consider my feelings for a sec.
2024-10-31 21:20:47
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IIWII :
I invest so much in my regulation and wording, then I notice he glazes over. I give him time to process then cave in to ask his thoughts/feelings, but I’ll get “about what?” Or “I don’t have any” 😖
2024-10-29 14:04:23
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sʎxǝןɐ :
that is why I can't ever tell my mom I'm annoyed at what she did
2024-10-30 05:24:03
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Cloudy :
I NEED TO SEND THIS TO HER. 🧍🏻♀️
2024-10-28 22:33:58
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anne hathaway :
Love this!
2024-10-28 23:04:39
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