THIS. THIS is why I’m so afraid of having a baby. I can’t give up everything that I worked for. It’s such a lottery.
2024-10-25 23:56:31
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Hotmessdressage :
This is a sad story but can we talk about what a wonderful, caring, empathetic person he is? He just sounds like such a good man.
2024-10-26 01:36:50
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snell :
this is a horror story for me
2024-10-26 00:33:41
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amnnamamn :
“We thought only of the cute babies we would have and not the grown adults we were raising” THIS 🎯🎯🎯
2024-10-25 23:59:38
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Fit_for_Flight :
This is why I always say to my friends “do you want a baby or to raise a human being”
2024-10-26 09:20:45
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Alicia77 :
Nice to hear from the dads…
2024-10-25 23:59:51
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equitycollectivefeminist🇨🇦 :
So raw and real. It is a privilege to hear this story. A cautionary tale of parenting
2024-10-26 00:47:01
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LakeLadyIngrid :
He still loves her.
2024-10-26 00:40:11
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Jim Lahey :
Unironically still the best parents anyone could have and be….
2024-10-29 07:35:26
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Flora_et_lapis :
This is heartbreaking and beautiful. You can tell he is a wonderful father and partner. I appreciate his perspective
2024-10-25 23:59:28
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Kelsey Jones :
These stories are so important. I am so grateful to the ones baring their souls.
2024-10-26 00:28:03
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priya_vi :
And people are asking other people why they are childfree🤦🏽♀️
2024-10-26 09:32:19
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Vee :
A very intelligent person. This man is so thoughtful.
2024-10-26 05:36:21
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swisa :
“What a selfish thing we did…” such a poignant point of awareness. A wonderful piece of written work!
2024-10-27 17:40:24
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Yana :
This series makes me so sad
2026-08-25 00:57:31
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slayliotta :
This writer sounds like the best case scenario of many men who become parents: proud of and in collaboration with his ex wife, engaging with his kids. And even he regrets it.
2024-10-26 02:25:28
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Jawn :
He perfectly described exactly why I don’t want to have kids in ways I’ve always had trouble articulating
2024-10-26 00:43:02
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Karola :
This hits very close to home. Both my partner and I work in creative industries, we really love each other, we've been together for 23 years. We're child free.
2024-10-26 00:29:13
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Caassy Ann :
This is my BIGGEST fear having kids. Even a slightly abnormal child would send me into an absolute spiralling depression. I truly feel my life would be destroyed
2024-10-29 13:45:21
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Stellar_Pixie_girl :
I'll never understand people making the decision to have kids and only thinking about "the cute babies". It absolutely baffles me
2026-10-22 04:31:45
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Morgan Velasco :
this is why I don't want kids. I love the dynamic I have with my hubby so much. we give each other all the attention & love.
2024-10-26 00:26:00
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⚤💫DaGrockFox💫⚤ :
I cannot stress's how greatful you created this series. as a one time fence sitter I'm happily child free with no regrets. 💜
2024-10-26 00:44:41
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hmmm. :
When I think of perfect scenarios (active and attentive partner, financially stable, easy pregnancy/labor/birth) I want children. But when I think of the reality I just can’t take the gamble.
2024-10-26 13:09:05
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Danielle P :
He seems like a good man. My husband didn’t even notice the life draining out of me.
2024-10-27 16:55:28
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