@michaeltothemax: If you were good to them, and you loved them in ways that they had never had someone love them before, and you invested in who they were as a person, treated them with kindness and respect; unless they’re are toxic, have severe arrested development, or are completely dysfunctional as a human being, they are GOING to miss you eventually. If your breakup just happened, they may not miss you right now; but after your EX has had an opportunity to travel the world a bit and they’ve had the experience of getting their eyes opened by people who don’t care anything about them, except for what they can do for them when YOU were so willing to give them anything, THEN it will hit them oftentimes from out of the blue, and one morning they will wake up and say to themselves, “What have I done? I let the best thing that ever happened to me, go…and what didn’t get me?” The hurt that you feel right now, they’re probably not feeling if the breakup happened recently, but it WILL come if you had a deep and loving relationship with them. It’ll come in the middle of the night when the ones that they counted on when they left you abandon them. It’ll come some morning when they’re drinking their cup of coffee alone, and all the things that they thought they had going for them are no longer working out the way they had planned. There’s this tendency for people to think that their ex’s NEVER hurt, that they’re NEVER think about them, that they’ve moved on and are completely happy, but I’m here to tell you, that’s just not true in most cases. You may hurt right now, but they will hurt later. Your job is to level up to the point where you move from being someone they didn’t want, to becoming someone that they can no longer have. And, when that script gets flipped it will be THEM who is feeling like you’re feeling right now, when they realized that they threw away the best thing they ever had. I’ve seen it happen over and over and over again. Remember, the higher you climb the better the view. Let me encourage you to climb higher because you deserve to be happy. #ex #exes #heartbroken #breakup #breakups #Relationship

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