GenericArtDad
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anonymityissafety :
people absolutely can make you feel things and anyone who argues otherwise is doing so because it benefits them
2024-10-27 07:06:56
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lmnt313 :
ya i kind of hate this whole "oh you have to change how you react to things" or "don't take things to heart" like that doesn't change that what you are doing is hurting me
2024-10-27 02:20:27
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user4145603743177 :
Right. No one ever says that in response to "He makes me feel happy"/ "My children make me feel so proud". That feels salient.
2024-10-27 14:31:16
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Doopy :
"People impact each other!" PLS TELL MY THERAPIST TOO
2024-10-27 04:12:57
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Science Druid :
The phrase gives: "You're way to sensitive," and, "You need to learn to take a joke." It's just more blame shifting gaslighting.
2024-10-27 04:14:25
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Connie May :
When this happens, I just tell that person that if my feelings are solely on my shoulders, that is fine. However, your feelings will be a you problem if you don’t like how I respond/leave.
2024-10-27 01:27:41
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You can't handle this much ☕️ :
my last therapist used this argument to try and convince me that I shouldnt feel how I felt about a manager telling me my miscarriage was "inconvenient" and had caused "a drop in performance" 🤨🙄
2024-10-27 09:38:53
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Devina 🫶🏽💋 :
This raised my blood pressure
2024-10-27 13:37:46
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Emily :
My professors in my counseling program love to say this and it makes me want to scream
2024-10-27 07:37:20
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Amanda :
Pop psychology was leading me to feel like HAVING emotions was demonstrating a FAILURE to self regulate. being upset was a failing of mine.
2024-10-27 16:07:54
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Stevie K :
I feel like I really need to learn from this situation, but it is going so over my head
2024-10-28 12:19:40
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Lori Jo :
sometimes I don't need to be stronger you just need to be nicer
2024-10-27 04:55:26
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Rubyinurath :
yes, I should take some responsibility for how my emotions make me react, but unfortunately, humans are not ethereally stoic deities in full control of exactly what they feel at all times
2024-10-27 19:32:00
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Alec Plumley :
I think this is a consequence of our inherent qualia as humans. We “feel” things, we can’t help it. But we have to externalize that feeling in words to make others realize we’re feeling it.
2024-10-27 03:14:46
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Mia :
Platitudes are not axioms and it would be helpful if more people would reflect on that
2024-10-27 01:33:55
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Julia Lee :
You are responsible for you and that are responsible for them. In this instance you take responsibility for your feelings and ask them to be responsible for their actions that illicits your emotions.
2024-10-27 16:50:31
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