@putting_the_b_in_bpd: Let me know if i need to elaborate in a video, but essentially; Your road to change lies in your ability to combat shame. Shame is the feeling of ‘otherness’, the feeling that you are fundamentally a ‘bad person’. No one is fundamentally a bad person, so we need to accept the part of ourselves that we have deemed ‘bad’. The only way to find these parts is through being curious of our thoughts, our behaviours, our way of life. #bpd #emotionalregulation #adhd #audhd #puttingthebinbpd
We’ve got emotional regulation wrong. It’s just another way of saying negative feelings are not okay. If someone upsets you- then there’s nothing more regulated then to be upset or angry. But we’re told that’s not being regulated.
2024-11-09 02:13:38
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Green beans :
Curiosity works. What I struggle with is living alone. I spiral by myself and then project that onto others. I want to feel at peace in myself, but loneliness and abandonment torments me 🥺.
2024-11-04 19:09:09
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PotatoSalad13 :
I accept that I suck asrr, amen 🙏
2024-10-30 04:13:38
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christabell Josh :
@Grandpa wobe
2024-10-31 19:20:12
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Evolving Perspective :
There needs to be more talk about shame, its a really complicated feeling to understand. Radical acceptance & authenticity def helps tho.
2024-11-07 05:03:07
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